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Just Gave A Chick The Roosh Forum Treatment
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Just Gave A Chick The Roosh Forum Treatment

Did the same thing to a chick here the other day.

Met her via a female friend. I have my female friend on facebook so she found my facebook and she added me.

She started messaging me which was nice because shes pretty damn cute and a nice body.

We meet for a drink and every time I go to the bathroom the dudes who work at the bar start hitting on her and radpidly disappear as soon as I return (run little rabbit, run).

Had some drinks and had my paws all over her which she seemed to respond to. Had to work early so she left early. Here is the funny part. Even though she lives with her parents and would not be able to invite me into her home if I went with her to her place she still expected me to escort her home in the taxi.

In other words, even though it was early, she wanted me to leave the bar. Go with her to her home. Wave goodbye at the door (because there is zero logistics for the lay at her place) and then take the taxi all the way back to the bar again.

Of course I said no and she did not react badly at first but starts bitching to me on facebook about not being a "gentleman" and acting all offended because I did not put her on a pedestal like every other guy does. I told her damn right I am not a gentleman, I am a man.

I then basically told her off for acting like a spoilt princess and told her to cut that crap if she wanted to hang out again.

Anyway, this Saturday I invite her out and she tells me where she is going to be with her friends and asks to meet me there. I dont show up.

I invite her out another night and she does the same thing. Tells me where she is going to be "with her friends"

Now the idea of chasing her across the city and competing with her friends for her attention is more princess crap as far as I am concerned and I tell her I am not interested in that and to cut out the princess crap.

The then gets pissed off at me for not complying and informs me that she has "1,000 guys chasing her" which only confirms to me that she expects me to be like one of them and put her on a pedestal.

I tell her "You have 1,000 guys chasing you. Great. I am not one of them. When you are ready to drop the princess crap, let me know until then I am deleting you from facebook" and then I deleted her.

Felt good.
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#27

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Did the same thing Saturday night. Brought a girl over, she didn't want to bang, and generally did her best to waste my time while giving me zero pleasure. Next morning she asked if I wanted to hang out with her again. I said, "No, I'm good."
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#28

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There is always a point where it is better to spend time on new leads instead of chasing old ones.

Go with your gut: if she feels like a waste time, she is a waste of time.

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#29

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Essentially, this:

"Sorry, but I'm not that kind of guy. You should probably look elsewhere. Have a good life."

And Fisto's:

"Look, I think ur making the mistake of thinking I don't meet very many women"

Are "take aways" of varying stripes and colors.

Can be a very strong move.

You have to have strong Game and be an all around G to make them work or have any effect.

These are not beginner moves.

If you game is weak and you bust one of these it comes off real weesh.
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I fully concur, G. But sometimes we gotta go into fight, in order to grow some cajones and get strong game.

I don't do well with the 'ok' text to lizards even though that's a style that works.
I agree fully with Hen that sometimes, we need to let lizards know what time it is exactly.

I had a Ghanaian lizard that I had to check last year but my regrets is that I kind of beta'd out when I cancelled on her. She responded to me late last year in the fall via text (usually in the summer here, lizards exercise their strongest options and then fall back on their betas in the winter).

When she re-contacted me, I told her, if she is not coming to my place, then we have nothing else to talk about, standard. I'm not interested in making female friends just for the sake of it. Unless the personality gels with mine, I don't hang out with women to get wow'ed by their beauty, regardless of how fine she is.

I've never been on that. If she ain't attainable then she is as good as butt ugly in my books.

No 'ok' and no 'sure, whenever'. Let her know that you stand a certain way and that as a king (which we all are), you don't put up from rubbish from your subjects.

It actually makes it better for other cats too (even though some cats don't care about reciprocity). That means when we pick up a lizard that has been around, she will already conduct herself in a respectful fashion and not be into wasting time.

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Quote: (02-01-2012 06:49 AM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

29. Been doing this for a while now.

To add to what I've said, you should see yourself like a selective company. You want to recruit the best talent and bring aboard chicks who are hungry and ready to start NOW. For those who aren't, you've got to turn them away and recruit elsewhere. Unless she's a 10 or damn near close to one, you've got to turn it down. This will help build your "inner game."

Good way to look at it, totally agree.

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#32

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My guess as to what was going on:
1. Most likely
She is getting some other dick, and was keeping you on the backburner.
2. Less Likely
She wasn't in the mood for sex because of being on the rag/work/random personal shit.


A girl who is a 7 in NYC or Miami, will act like like an 8 or 9 in DC, because the talent pool is so shallow.

Who cares anyway? In a couple weeks you can be balls deep in some smoking 20 yr old latina lizards.
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#33

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HC, I don't agree with the way you handled this. You went primal on the girl when you were in the zone and then you invited to this?
"So fast forward a couple of days, we decide to meetup after work. We do a happy hour (drinks, sushi, and hookah) and went dutch on the bill."

She had too much time to think. Next time this happens try to set the meet-up for a time when you are about to enter the same zone you were in when you met. Play busy. Date late= more sex
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#34

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Quote: (02-01-2012 10:12 AM)Moma Wrote:  

I fully concur, G. But sometimes we gotta go into fight, in order to grow some cajones and get strong game.

I agree.

If you really want to get better, I wouldn't do these "take aways" by text.

Texting in general is a weak form of communication other than basic facts.

"Take aways" need to be strong. When you text them, they are kind of weak by default.

Never write what you can say over the phone.

Never say over the phone what you can say in person.

Never say in person what can be said in gestures.

Never say in gestures what can be said with silence.


(G Manifesto original, right there holmes).

But again, you need to be a Monster for take aways to work. If you are not bringing heat, a take away has zero effect.
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G, I was thinking about your comments on texting during my trip. Due to the fact that I was using a very shytty phone which made texting extremely hard, it was much easier for me to pick up the horn instead. Plus, the fact that I was in one of the loudest and most confrontational countries inthe modern world, it made it easier to just speak my mind.

I thought carefully and I did realise that texting is a bit of a pussified way to communicate besides for logistics purposes. I too am guilty of it but so far this year, I have not committed that sin.

Even though it may deter a lot of prospects, those who were deterred were flaky anyway. The ones who do stick around are ready to play in the 4th quarter.

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Quote: (02-01-2012 11:28 AM)TudoBem Wrote:  

A girl who is a 7 in NYC or Miami, will act like like an 8 or 9 in DC, becahttp://www.rooshvforum.network/jscripts/editor_themes/default/images/television.gifuse the talent pool is so shallow.

This is why I have a few ground rules when gaming in DC.

1.If a girl is a 7 or above and has lived in dc area for more then a year, I HAVE to bang her that night. If I don't I just assume i'll never see her again(She will flake or play text games).

2. I only call back girls who are relatively new to the area or tourists(if it's a friday and I can pull a next day bang).

Following these rules have saved me a lot of time.
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Quote: (02-01-2012 11:44 AM)Moma Wrote:  

G, I was thinking about your comments on texting during my trip. Due to the fact that I was using a very shytty phone which made texting extremely hard, it was much easier for me to pick up the horn instead. Plus, the fact that I was in one of the loudest and most confrontational countries inthe modern world, it made it easier to just speak my mind.

I thought carefully and I did realise that texting is a bit of a pussified way to communicate besides for logistics purposes. I too am guilty of it but so far this year, I have not committed that sin.

Even though it may deter a lot of prospects, those who were deterred were flaky anyway. The ones who do stick around are ready to play in the 4th quarter.

Texting is super weesh.

And I need to put a end to this "yeah, but younger girls just don't pick up the phone..." excuse.

Last night I swooped a fly 23 year old.

I called her left her a message.

She called back, and talked to her for about 8 minutes, on the plan of the night. (Air tight Phone Game here.)

After I got off the horn, to check with a sushi joint, I shot her a text:

Let's meet at XXXX at 9:30 pm. Address is XXXX. Wear high heels.

I kind of blew it though. I should have said, "wear high heels and a skirt" like I usually do. Or told her that over the phone.

She showed up in pants.

Crucial error on my part.
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#38

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Hen played it right. Though in my mind giving a girl the "Roosh forum treatment" would be to give it to her so good that she's willing to anything to get back on that cock.
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#39

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El mechanico has a good point, date late = more sex. Talking about giving the chick the rooshv forum treatment should not be new news but sadly it is. We should all follow HC s example. Yes, we can dissect it but hindsight is always 20 20.

is calling a girl a princess in this context a neg or an insult outright? Or saying you are one of those?...huh....These club chicks get guys drooling over them each weekend. Calling her out as a princess and not being cooperative in her disingenuine counter offer is something I would do. If a chick doesn't counter offer your date within a reasonable time span, then you are on thin ice with her.

There are always gonna be chicks (co workers,friends and women to bang or date) that are always gonna be or seem busy when you want to do something. One day I made a comment to a bunch of colleagues about a particular girl that she is even busier than GOD! We all cracked up. Point is, everybody has free time, it's just if they want to spend time with you.
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#40

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This is pure poetry. G, you're a wise man, the kind that is rare these days. Guys, specially the young ones, memorize to heart the 4 lines below and stick to these rules. You'll be handsomely rewarded.

HH, good job man, these lizards have to be reminded of their position on the food chain as that of # on our roaster. Rock on brother. I usually don't browse/post much in the game section but I enjoyed reading this.

Quote: (02-01-2012 11:39 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

Never write what you can say over the phone.

Never say over the phone what you can say in person.

Never say in person what can be said in gestures.

Never say in gestures what can be said with silence.


(G Manifesto original, right there holmes).

But again, you need to be a Monster for take aways to work. If you are not bringing heat, a take away has zero effect.
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I'm kind of anti-"put her in her place" myself. If one has options and other girls cooking, what's the point of sending of sending an unsolicited "GFY" text to ONE girl?

I know that HC's text wasn't coming from a place of butthurt-edness or disappointment, but I can't say that women aren't going to interpret it that way.

On the other hand, radio silence never goes misinterpreted.
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Quote: (01-31-2012 07:38 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

So fast forward a couple of days, we decide to meetup after work. We do a happy hour (drinks, sushi, and hookah) and went dutch on the bill.

I have been reading this forum for about 3 years now i mainly lurk, but one of the most important thing i got from RVF is NO DATES BEFORE 9pm, unless something very exciting before hand.



Quote: (01-31-2012 07:38 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

Fellas,

She suggests meeting after I get back from my Cali trip, which will be just over two weeks from now, and I don't even leave until next week.


Another forum lesson is to to have a lifestyle she wants to be part of.

My typical spiel to set up a date sometimes is like this. " i have to attend The _________unveiling party/social function/event etc etc its from 7-9 ill get there at 8pm , but you can meet me at 8:30, tell them your Intl__Rasta plus one at the door.... then we can get some drinks afterwards."
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#43

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I think she was trying to add YOU to HER "netflix queue."

You need to see her again and fuck her in the ass for trying to play you!
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Quote: (02-01-2012 05:02 PM)Smitty Wrote:  

I think she was trying to add YOU to HER "netflix queue."

You need to see her again and fuck her in the ass for trying to play you!
That's what I was thinking. There's just to many conflicts in style and techniques here to go full on Rooshv forum on the girl.

Cavemen don't date Dutch.
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Quote: (02-01-2012 05:16 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Quote: (02-01-2012 05:02 PM)Smitty Wrote:  

I think she was trying to add YOU to HER "netflix queue."

You need to see her again and fuck her in the ass for trying to play you!
That's what I was thinking. There's just to many conflicts in style and techniques here to go full on Rooshv forum on the girl.

Cavemen don't date Dutch.

I agree there were conflicting messages being sent here but I can understand how it happened- the OP was trying to move things forward and took the opportunity she gave him.

I wouldn't have dismissed her outright though- if she is making it difficult to see her I simply go silent on her 10-14 days at least.

She will interpret this as you being busy with other women and that she is not a high priority with you-if she is at all attracted to you this will pique her interest

You maintain hand in the relationship while keeping as many girls in your pipeline as possible. You never know when one of them will suddenly become bang ready

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#46

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HC, I applaud you. At some point principal > pussy

I personally am in the middle of a situation where a FWB is becoming increasingly disrespectful in my eyes. Had to check the bitch last night (after I fucked her of course) and now I may or may not ever hear from her again. Worth it?? yes. because when I get a restart text in two weeks she'll fall in line and act appropriately.
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#47

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Quote: (02-01-2012 11:51 AM)rakishness Wrote:  

Quote: (02-01-2012 11:28 AM)TudoBem Wrote:  

A girl who is a 7 in NYC or Miami, will act like like an 8 or 9 in DC, becahttp://www.rooshvforum.network/jscripts/editor_themes/default/images/television.gifuse the talent pool is so shallow.

This is why I have a few ground rules when gaming in DC.

1.If a girl is a 7 or above and has lived in dc area for more then a year, I HAVE to bang her that night. If I don't I just assume i'll never see her again(She will flake or play text games).

2. I only call back girls who are relatively new to the area or tourists(if it's a friday and I can pull a next day bang).

Following these rules have saved me a lot of time.

This couldn't be more true. +1

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#48

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HC,

You did the right right thing. I would have done the same because I have a strict policy about the 2-week/3-visit window (whichever comes first) as far as banging. Since she would not have made my window, I would have discarded her anyway.

I don't really take excuses well especially the "I have been busy" excuse. Hell, I worked a full-time job while going to graduate school so I am not going to be that sympathetic about how one THOUGHT their schedule was so busy.
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Quote: (02-01-2012 11:28 AM)TudoBem Wrote:  

My guess as to what was going on:
1. Most likely
She is getting some other dick, and was keeping you on the backburner.
2. Less Likely
She wasn't in the mood for sex because of being on the rag/work/random personal shit.

In my area a common reason for this is b/c the women are scared. Cabbies are usually creeps towards attractive women by themselves. The cab driver also then knows where they live.
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Quote: (02-01-2012 01:42 PM)Intl_Rasta Wrote:  

Quote: (01-31-2012 07:38 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

So fast forward a couple of days, we decide to meetup after work. We do a happy hour (drinks, sushi, and hookah) and went dutch on the bill.

I have been reading this forum for about 3 years now i mainly lurk, but one of the most important thing i got from RVF is NO DATES BEFORE 9pm, unless something very exciting before hand.



Quote: (01-31-2012 07:38 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

Fellas,

She suggests meeting after I get back from my Cali trip, which will be just over two weeks from now, and I don't even leave until next week.


Another forum lesson is to to have a lifestyle she wants to be part of.

My typical spiel to set up a date sometimes is like this. " i have to attend The _________unveiling party/social function/event etc etc its from 7-9 ill get there at 8pm , but you can meet me at 8:30, tell them your Intl__Rasta plus one at the door.... then we can get some drinks afterwards."

This is not true at all, especially wrt DC. I've transitioned girls from Happy Hours to my place or to another bar/restaurant and back to my place countless times. I know the city by heart, and I know the culture, and I know Ethiopian women very well (my family is from the Horn of Africa).

I wouldn't go to a HH if I hadn't been successful with them before.

DC is in a league of its own. I don't care what city/country you're from or how developed your game is, this city will crush your soul. Common questions from girls here, unlike girls from other cities, is where do you work (not what you do), and where did you go to school?

That said, it's a great training ground for players. I usually kill when I travel, and nowhere have I met girls as cold as the ones in DC. On top of that, the quality you get for all the hard work it takes to operate in this environment is pretty low. DC women have nothing on women from top-tier cities like Miami, NYC, or Los Angeles.

As for the DHV point, the girl was enthralled by my stories of adventure (apparently) and loved how I lived in Cali and am going there next week. It's her dream to relocate to the Bay Area. She kept talking about how much we had in common and how we're a good match, even hypothetically talking about us in terms of being a couple. I just gave a bemused smile knowing that all I care about is the roster.
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