Quote: (02-01-2012 06:34 AM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:
Quote: (02-01-2012 06:15 AM)Jackhammer Wrote:
This is good. I think some guys who are saying you showed too much emotion are assuming you're still "gaming" this chick. There's a point in time where you just have to write them off, and it's good practice to let them know that their retarded behavior is the reason for your lost interest. Good luck on the return-bang!
My thoughts exactly.
There's a lot of ways to analyze that situation.
Here is how I look at it:
One, I met her at a club. Even though we did meet once after that drunk encounter, there really is a small window of opportunity to bang a chick you met at a club. The majority of the time--and I've only lived in big cities--if you don't pull the same night, you probably aren't going to bang.
Two, I think it's very beta to allow a chick to call the shots. No mean to toot my own horn, but I see myself as a king in my world, though I may be just a passerby in yours. I've traveled a good chunk of the world, have had many different flags, live a pretty cool lifestyle, so I don't need to wait on any chick. I think cutting her off actually validates my alphaness and overall confidence. This is an important and overlooked tactic in "harem management."
Just think of it the way a rich celebrity or someone of that mold would. You think if the Prince of Saudi Arabia was having a high-end party and a chick wasn't giving him the chance that night she would stick around? He would probably kick her out immediately. This is how you should see yourself. Even though you may not have the money or resources that he does, you can definitely build a harem. If you follow the principles advocated on this forum (learn game, travel, get cash, dress well, exercise, eat good, gain knowledge), you will likely be in a position to where you are "turning away pussy." Definitely don't let chicks, especially American ones, use their pussy power to get you off of your high horse. Stay on that bad boy and concentrate on these principles.
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Well said Hencredible. This is kind of how i view and treat American chicks. I am tall, very good looking, successful, i
intelligent, cultured, well dressed, travelled, etc., and I am so damn frustrated with the
FLAKINESS OF AMERICAN GIRLS and their terrible attitudes ! So, whenI go out, i try to get as many numbers as possible, but i feel if a chick
is interested in me, she will make every reasonable effort to see me that week. Period, end of story, unless she is out of town, on rag, sick, then what is her excuse not to see you in order to make your friendship/possilble relationship progress and escalate like it should. With that said, when a girl starts being flakey and telling me maybe next week, lets wait, or cancels a date, I stop calling and/or texting her and telling her. This way she knows that she is not going to keep getting away with this, and I will not be a Beta male. A lot of them have ended up realizing their stupidity, and end up calling or texting me with a booty call or date (at this point i will only give them 1 date and if nothing starts to escalate quickly i am out). South American girls and Eastern European girls rarely do this to me, i usually get a date from them within 3 days, and they are usually hotter. Good job on your handling of the situation, and taking the principles of Roosh forum and your own common sense and applying them. I like the Saudi Prince mentality and what he would do. Their a PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA for players like you and me....
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