I keep getting screwed with girls. Generally I trust easily. I’m also honest, caring, and kind. I used to think it’s just that I’m meeting the wrong girls but it seems like everyone is just extremely self centered and will only care about themselves. Not to go into details but in general I’ll say I’ve been the nice guy.
On the other hand I watch and admire the guys who lie about age, wealth, being single, etc who do so well with girls. They could say they love the girl just to get into her pants for a fling and balance 5 girls at once. Even girls who know they are lying seem to be very into them. Perhaps this is known as being red pill but I just have this moral compass screaming at me to do the opposite.
I never thought I’m a nice person but it seems like my “normal” is just leading me to get taken advantage of. In all honesty it feels like girls are red pill just as much as the guys people see as assholes. I think girls actually feel they can use me just because I’m not popular or good looking? As if I should be thankful they spend time with me asking me to serve them.
Sorry for the rant, I was wondering if anyone had some insight on my dilemma? Thank you.
On the other hand I watch and admire the guys who lie about age, wealth, being single, etc who do so well with girls. They could say they love the girl just to get into her pants for a fling and balance 5 girls at once. Even girls who know they are lying seem to be very into them. Perhaps this is known as being red pill but I just have this moral compass screaming at me to do the opposite.
I never thought I’m a nice person but it seems like my “normal” is just leading me to get taken advantage of. In all honesty it feels like girls are red pill just as much as the guys people see as assholes. I think girls actually feel they can use me just because I’m not popular or good looking? As if I should be thankful they spend time with me asking me to serve them.
Sorry for the rant, I was wondering if anyone had some insight on my dilemma? Thank you.