Women don't seem to have fixed personalities. Men pride themselves on what they are, whereas women pride themselves on how flexible they can be.
It's very unlikely, to say the least, that a straight man would do anything with another man, because it would create a feeling of going against what you are. It would feel very wrong and inappropriate and therefore disgusting and weird. It would be like speaking in a different accent all day or pretending to be someone you're not, and men find that very uncomfortable.
But women are more capable of doing stuff with another woman, simply because they don't have the same level of disgust at going against what you are, because they really don't have strong personalities. Even if a girl doesn't want to kiss another girl, if she were to do it for whatever reason, she probably wouldn't spend the next few weeks feeling disgusted at herself like a man would. Whenever I see some gay shit in a thumbnail image on a porn site (it happens) I do the sign of the cross and wash my eyes with water and tell myself I never saw anything.
Also women tend to change quite drastically depending on what's going on around them, who they're associating with, their age, life events and so on. Everyone changes somewhat but men tend to retain a certain core of themselves.
Women mostly don't like to debate or argue, because they don't really have convictions like men do. They don't feel strongly about anything much unless it affects them, whereas men pride themselves on standing for principles. It seems that women don't have principles or convictions. Women can say fine and pretend to agree with you but men find it hard because it matters and it's weak to just flop and give in.
Women are amazingly capable of hiding what they really think or feel. A woman can go for years pretending to fine with a certain situation while secretly hating it. Men don't have that kind of patience. In fact it's not even a matter of patience because men have clear ideas about what they want and they have the power to influence situations and people, and so there's no need to tolerate something if you can change it.
Also they don't actually know what they're attracted to. Whether a girl likes you or not can depend on any number of things in that precise moment. You can be a perfectly normal guy and be rejected by a girl for no particular reason at all.
Those are just some thoughts to get the discussion started. This is something that I think about often.
It's very unlikely, to say the least, that a straight man would do anything with another man, because it would create a feeling of going against what you are. It would feel very wrong and inappropriate and therefore disgusting and weird. It would be like speaking in a different accent all day or pretending to be someone you're not, and men find that very uncomfortable.
But women are more capable of doing stuff with another woman, simply because they don't have the same level of disgust at going against what you are, because they really don't have strong personalities. Even if a girl doesn't want to kiss another girl, if she were to do it for whatever reason, she probably wouldn't spend the next few weeks feeling disgusted at herself like a man would. Whenever I see some gay shit in a thumbnail image on a porn site (it happens) I do the sign of the cross and wash my eyes with water and tell myself I never saw anything.
Also women tend to change quite drastically depending on what's going on around them, who they're associating with, their age, life events and so on. Everyone changes somewhat but men tend to retain a certain core of themselves.
Women mostly don't like to debate or argue, because they don't really have convictions like men do. They don't feel strongly about anything much unless it affects them, whereas men pride themselves on standing for principles. It seems that women don't have principles or convictions. Women can say fine and pretend to agree with you but men find it hard because it matters and it's weak to just flop and give in.
Women are amazingly capable of hiding what they really think or feel. A woman can go for years pretending to fine with a certain situation while secretly hating it. Men don't have that kind of patience. In fact it's not even a matter of patience because men have clear ideas about what they want and they have the power to influence situations and people, and so there's no need to tolerate something if you can change it.
Also they don't actually know what they're attracted to. Whether a girl likes you or not can depend on any number of things in that precise moment. You can be a perfectly normal guy and be rejected by a girl for no particular reason at all.
Those are just some thoughts to get the discussion started. This is something that I think about often.