How do you guys manage the deep vs lighthearted conversations?
For example, I feel a lot of existential stress right now. New job, finances, loss of loved ones, legal problems, away from friend group, etc.
A lot of my focus is on self improvement and studying.
But this serious state of mind that is allowing me to be disciplined in the gym, in studying, improving on the job and becoming a master of myself is not really the lighthearted fun attitude I should be having when it comes to girls.
Should I try and just fake my attitude while still remaining as congruent as possible or just take time out of the game until I get back there naturally?
What do you all do during periods like this?
Thanks guys
For example, I feel a lot of existential stress right now. New job, finances, loss of loved ones, legal problems, away from friend group, etc.
A lot of my focus is on self improvement and studying.
But this serious state of mind that is allowing me to be disciplined in the gym, in studying, improving on the job and becoming a master of myself is not really the lighthearted fun attitude I should be having when it comes to girls.
Should I try and just fake my attitude while still remaining as congruent as possible or just take time out of the game until I get back there naturally?
What do you all do during periods like this?
Thanks guys