So a girl I was considering for an LTR, 29, has a gay friend she went to high school with. He lives in a different part of the world, but drops by every few months and they meet up. She's also in touch with him over social media, not excessively but now and then.
In the past the gay friend undermined me in terms of trying to sabotage the relationship with the girl by speculating about why I won't be a good fit for her.
Anyway, so he's back in town and whilst I did not tell her I don't want her to see him, I have made clear I don't like it. This led to the usual, bigot, insecure, jealous, etc accusations, you can't tell me who I'll see - which I never did. I merely said I don't like it.
What is the best way to deal with the gay friend problem?
In the past the gay friend undermined me in terms of trying to sabotage the relationship with the girl by speculating about why I won't be a good fit for her.
Anyway, so he's back in town and whilst I did not tell her I don't want her to see him, I have made clear I don't like it. This led to the usual, bigot, insecure, jealous, etc accusations, you can't tell me who I'll see - which I never did. I merely said I don't like it.
What is the best way to deal with the gay friend problem?