I went out last night and had a blast. The clubs were full as fuck, so that meant a lot of beautiful girls, but also a lot of different type of girls. I approached a lot during the night, probably 15 sets in total, got some numbers, good conversations and some laughs.
But out of these sets i had 2 very bad interactions, that surprised me badly. I've not experienced girls being this rude before so i didn't know how to deal with the situation.
The first experience i approached 2 girls sitting at a table and talking, one of them was giving me strong eye contact so i took it as an IOI. I went up to them smiled and said hi. One of the girls just gave me the finger and said fuck off. I just looked at her and smiled and said "why?" She said "go away, don't stand here next to us" and turned her face away. I wanted to stand my ground so i said "oh i didn't know you owned this place, i think im just gonna stand here for a while then". Just to piss her off. Stood there for a minute and chatted a friend then thought it's a waste of time and moved on.
The second experience, my friend and i were on the dance floor and saw 2 girls dancing. One of them was a really good dancer and she was beautiful. The music was loud so my friend shouted in my ear "this girl is beautiful, say hello to her". And i think her chubby 3/10 friend heard it and out of nowhere starting to make ugly faces towards us when we approached. She was making the puking gesture with her hand, and i thought this was extremely obnoxious and rude, to be honest never experienced anything more disrespectful than this. We had not even said hello yet.
I just looked at her and said "what's wrong with you?" she said "don't look at my friend that way, go away, you're ugly" i was shocked, but i said "trust me, you're a 3/10 at best and i know you never get this attention from guys, but you don't have to be disgusting about it. You should think about what you're saying before you talk. You're fucking weird". And moved on.
What i have noticed is girls can talk shit and act extremely rude towards you, but as soon as you confront them, they go numb, they go silent, too scared to look you in the eye and talk back. So my question is, what should i do in such situations?
1. Would you just move on and let them have the "ego win" by being disgusting towards you?
2. Would you throw in a comment as i did, and then move on, not waste any more time?
3. Would you stand your ground and defuse the situation?
My friend kept telling me just to take the defeat and leave asap but i find it hard to let girls get away with such disrespectful behaviour. If they are used to beta guys just walking away instead of being confronted with it, they will never stop doing this. I don't want to reward bad behaviour.
But out of these sets i had 2 very bad interactions, that surprised me badly. I've not experienced girls being this rude before so i didn't know how to deal with the situation.
The first experience i approached 2 girls sitting at a table and talking, one of them was giving me strong eye contact so i took it as an IOI. I went up to them smiled and said hi. One of the girls just gave me the finger and said fuck off. I just looked at her and smiled and said "why?" She said "go away, don't stand here next to us" and turned her face away. I wanted to stand my ground so i said "oh i didn't know you owned this place, i think im just gonna stand here for a while then". Just to piss her off. Stood there for a minute and chatted a friend then thought it's a waste of time and moved on.
The second experience, my friend and i were on the dance floor and saw 2 girls dancing. One of them was a really good dancer and she was beautiful. The music was loud so my friend shouted in my ear "this girl is beautiful, say hello to her". And i think her chubby 3/10 friend heard it and out of nowhere starting to make ugly faces towards us when we approached. She was making the puking gesture with her hand, and i thought this was extremely obnoxious and rude, to be honest never experienced anything more disrespectful than this. We had not even said hello yet.
I just looked at her and said "what's wrong with you?" she said "don't look at my friend that way, go away, you're ugly" i was shocked, but i said "trust me, you're a 3/10 at best and i know you never get this attention from guys, but you don't have to be disgusting about it. You should think about what you're saying before you talk. You're fucking weird". And moved on.
What i have noticed is girls can talk shit and act extremely rude towards you, but as soon as you confront them, they go numb, they go silent, too scared to look you in the eye and talk back. So my question is, what should i do in such situations?
1. Would you just move on and let them have the "ego win" by being disgusting towards you?
2. Would you throw in a comment as i did, and then move on, not waste any more time?
3. Would you stand your ground and defuse the situation?
My friend kept telling me just to take the defeat and leave asap but i find it hard to let girls get away with such disrespectful behaviour. If they are used to beta guys just walking away instead of being confronted with it, they will never stop doing this. I don't want to reward bad behaviour.