Hi everyone,
I’m recently divorced and didn’t have sex for 4 months. During the marriage my member worked great. I‘m 32, live a generally healthy eating lifestyle, life weights 3-4 times a week, in great shape physically, vape during the week and smoke on the weekends (for quite a while) and have a glass or 2 of wine a night. I’m not depressed but I do have a little generally anxiety which I perceive as normal for anyone (trying sell a home, job, etc).
Well I tried to have sex with a girl and I got about 50-60% hard. She was good looking and very sexual. So I saw the doctor and they said it was all mental, gave me a low dose prescription of viagra (6 pills 25mg) and said come back in a month for blood work. The last blood work was 3 months ago it was normal and my last T check was high and good. I had a T check a few years back because i has similar issues which new women, eventually got over it.
Well long story short, I found a different girl/plate I’m really interested in.So I used one of the pills and my God, I fucked like a mad man for 3 hours. She was really impressed and I even got a fourth run at it in the morning.
Anyways, although the meds worked I don’t want to use it because I’ve heard of guys getting hooked and id rather not because I am too young. The next time I see her should I pop another one to build more confidence? Or should I just go into it and see what happens? If it doesn’t work out like I’d like, then should I just say I’m nervous or blame her? Clearly this shit is on my mind
Edit: should I stop drinking the wine at night? Any other things you can think of to help? I sometimes get morning wood, not as much as when I was younger. I also take muscle relaxers occasionally for my back but I’m stopping that until this issue is resolved.
I’m recently divorced and didn’t have sex for 4 months. During the marriage my member worked great. I‘m 32, live a generally healthy eating lifestyle, life weights 3-4 times a week, in great shape physically, vape during the week and smoke on the weekends (for quite a while) and have a glass or 2 of wine a night. I’m not depressed but I do have a little generally anxiety which I perceive as normal for anyone (trying sell a home, job, etc).
Well I tried to have sex with a girl and I got about 50-60% hard. She was good looking and very sexual. So I saw the doctor and they said it was all mental, gave me a low dose prescription of viagra (6 pills 25mg) and said come back in a month for blood work. The last blood work was 3 months ago it was normal and my last T check was high and good. I had a T check a few years back because i has similar issues which new women, eventually got over it.
Well long story short, I found a different girl/plate I’m really interested in.So I used one of the pills and my God, I fucked like a mad man for 3 hours. She was really impressed and I even got a fourth run at it in the morning.
Anyways, although the meds worked I don’t want to use it because I’ve heard of guys getting hooked and id rather not because I am too young. The next time I see her should I pop another one to build more confidence? Or should I just go into it and see what happens? If it doesn’t work out like I’d like, then should I just say I’m nervous or blame her? Clearly this shit is on my mind
Edit: should I stop drinking the wine at night? Any other things you can think of to help? I sometimes get morning wood, not as much as when I was younger. I also take muscle relaxers occasionally for my back but I’m stopping that until this issue is resolved.