Im still new to the forum, I told my story on other post and received advice and a coule of useful links that seem to be working.
Anyway I was speaking with a couple of friends about their relationships, current and past and suddenly an idea came to my head.
Do always women have to be in a worst position than men for a relationship to work?
I heard the same history over and over again, I dont know if its only in latin america or all around the world, let me give you an example:
Guy meets a woman and help her to overcome her limitations,(financial,job,Move with him to a better country,education etc) maybe because the guy is a blue collar worker or something like that, then once she is in a similar position or even better than her man she becomes bossy,angry, dominant etc. Its like they dont know how to handle to grow and improve, or her man has to be better than her always, better looking, have a better job, do better than her financially, have a better education, be smarter than her, we cant be "equals"you know what I mean.
what are your experiences and thoughts?
Anyway I was speaking with a couple of friends about their relationships, current and past and suddenly an idea came to my head.
Do always women have to be in a worst position than men for a relationship to work?
I heard the same history over and over again, I dont know if its only in latin america or all around the world, let me give you an example:
Guy meets a woman and help her to overcome her limitations,(financial,job,Move with him to a better country,education etc) maybe because the guy is a blue collar worker or something like that, then once she is in a similar position or even better than her man she becomes bossy,angry, dominant etc. Its like they dont know how to handle to grow and improve, or her man has to be better than her always, better looking, have a better job, do better than her financially, have a better education, be smarter than her, we cant be "equals"you know what I mean.
what are your experiences and thoughts?