Hello everyone,
I read posts here since a while, and have read a lot of great posts talking about how dominate woman, how to fuck them good, how to make them come back after a good sex for a second round.
But i've never read posts about how dominate a girl who actually want be the dominant. So, as I have experiment sex with many dominant girls, I want share here my experience about how dominate them.
Just a disclaimer before start : i'm french, english is not my natural language. I will do my best but my english may be bad, sorry ^^
I just give you here my opinion, based on my personals experience. I don't "give you a lesson", or blame me if you don't think/act like me.
Oh and by the way, this post may be long !
Let's star with the first point :
What I mean by "dominant girls"
I don't speak here of girls who are into BDSM or "weird" stuff. I don't speak too, of girls who give you instructions whereas you are fucking them, and who think this is dominance.
The first kind (BDMS girls) I don't know how to deal with them, because all this shit make me run away ^^
The second kind, is very easy to handle : when you fuck a girl, and she gives you instruction, put your hand on her mouth, and she will stop thinking she dominates you ^^
No when i say "dominant girls" here, i mean these girls who want be on top of you, push you onto the bed, and ride you like a boss. These girls who want control the sex, be the one in charge, and be the one who fuck you.
Why dominate them ? Why don't let them do what they want ?
It's a question I hear or read sometimes. I think she deserves to be asked :it's true, that a wild girl who takes things in charge, and start to ride you wildly is an idea more exciting than a girl who won't do anything in bed...
And it's true to say that this kind of sex (the girl on top of you) may be very good if the girl is skilled.
And actually, many guys I know are surprised and happy to meet a dominant girl. Because the majority of girls are submissive. So, when they meet a dominant girl, they let her do all what she wants. Personnaly, when I was at the beginin of my sex life, I always let the girl on charge when she was dominant. Then I learned this was a bad idea.
But in my opinion, there are three reasons to dominate dominant girls :
1) Letting her always or often dominate you in bedroom, will put her in the dominant role in all the areas of your relation
2) Whether she is your girlfriend, or a sex friend, letting her always dominate you, may will make her get tired of you. She will be bored on bed with you even if she claims the opposite.
3) A dominant girl who often dominates guys in bed will ADORE be suddenly flipped and banged by a true dominant man. If you do this to her, you will be "the special guy", and she will come back again and again.
How concretely dominate a dominant woman ?
To ansewr this question, let's see what a dominant girl and a submissive guy in action look like :
https://fr.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=865695277
Of course, I know this is a movie scene, and I know that what we see there it's what the director want to show us.
But anyway, we have here a typical "dominant girl sex". So we will take this as illustration.
We can see, that right from the start, the girl is on charge.
-She is more wild and more agressive than the guy.
-She handles the kiss
-She pushes the guy on the bed, and she climbs on him
-SHE takes off HER clothes and the guy clothes
-She fucks him in cowgirl position during the whole thing.
Why all of this ? Because the guy did nothing. He just let her do all what they want. So ok, he had a great sex time, but in real life, if this happened, he wouldn't see this girl many times again.
What would he have do to give her a unusual fuck ? A fuck where she would be the submissive one for once ?
For me, there are differents way to do that :
1) Take control immediately.
Is she hot and wild ? Is she taking over during the kiss ? Is she putting his hands on your body and pushes you, or takes off your clothes ?
If you want dominate her, you can react now. Be as wild as her, grab her by her neck and handle the kiss, take her hands and maker her do whit them what YOU want, and take her and pushes her on the bed.
The message will be clear : she will understand that you are not like all others submissive guys and you will be on charge. Then, join her on the bed, go on top of her and... you know what do next![[Image: wink.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/wink.gif)
I assure you, she will adore this, and be happy to come back... And, if she is a playful girl, the next time she will try again to dominate you, to see what happens then... And she'd probably do this to be fucked more harder.
2) Let her be on charge... on beginin.
This is an other way to dominate a dominant woman. Let her take controll, during preliminaries, let her handle the kiss, let her push you on the bed, let her take off your clothers and climb on you... Let her fuck you for a while...and then grab her by her hips, and flip her. Go back on top, and fuck her hard.
For her, the sensation of "brutal lost of control" will be incredibly exicting. One second she was in a classic fuck where she as always was the dominant, and the second after that, she is pinned on the bed, banged by a trume a dominant man who don't ask her permission to do what he wants.
For you, letting her be dominant first, and then take back controll will give you the good sensation of total control. You are so confident and so powerful that you can allow her to fuck you for a while. This will drive you insane.
And the sensation of "renvege fuck" (fucking her, stronger, and faster than she did) is incredible.
3) Letting her on top... but still be the dominant one.
That is in my opinion the ultimate way to dominate her. Let her on top, let her ride you, and act as she wants. But when you want, stay under her, and start fucking her. Give her some wild strokes, and grab her by boobs, ass, or hips, to make her go slowly, whereas you go faster and faster.
This will drives her insane. She is on top, on his favorite position, but for once, she is totally dominated and fucked. The sensation of unusual lost of control will make her mad of you.
Up the domination factor
Doing all of that is enough to give her a very good sex. But you can do better.
With a dominant girl, uping the domination factor will drive her crazy.
The idea is to dominate her not only in a physical aspect, but physcologic one too.
There are classics ways to up the domination factor :
-Push her (onto bed, against wall, etc)
-Pinned her
-Pull her hair
-Spank her ass
In short, make her understand that you are the one in charge, and her body is yours. Many dominant girls do all of this (but in "girl to boy" version), so she will experiment what she does usually. She will looove this.
There are other ways to up the domination factor, who are more specific to dominant girls :
- When she is riding you, don't just flip her back, but carry her, stand up, leave the bed, and fuck her in an other place, like against wall or on desk or table.
This will show her you are in total control, not just because you fuck her, but because you fuck her where you want, and as you want You are the one in control, and the one who decides where the fuck take place.
She will love this feeling, and love be fucked in "anusual" places.
- Taunt her, verbally.
An other way to drive her crazy : when you are on control and fuck her, it's the perfect time to taunt her, and especially if she was on top at the beginin of sex, and taunted you.
A good "so, who is the boss now ?" will make her feel more your dominance.
-Look her in her eyes (eventually with smirking)
-When you are in top and fucking her, let her struggle and try to go back on top. Let her try, and make sure she fails : she will feel that all her efforts are useless, and this will make her feel totally in your power.
-Make her beg. When she is about to cum, make sure she doesn't have her orgasm, before she begs you for its. This will be the ultim step to her submission and she will love surrender as this.
That's all ideas I have to dominate a dominant woman. I love doing all of this, and dominant girls I banged this way usually come back for more !
And you ? What do you do when you meet a dominant girls ?
I read posts here since a while, and have read a lot of great posts talking about how dominate woman, how to fuck them good, how to make them come back after a good sex for a second round.
But i've never read posts about how dominate a girl who actually want be the dominant. So, as I have experiment sex with many dominant girls, I want share here my experience about how dominate them.
Just a disclaimer before start : i'm french, english is not my natural language. I will do my best but my english may be bad, sorry ^^
I just give you here my opinion, based on my personals experience. I don't "give you a lesson", or blame me if you don't think/act like me.
Oh and by the way, this post may be long !
Let's star with the first point :
What I mean by "dominant girls"
I don't speak here of girls who are into BDSM or "weird" stuff. I don't speak too, of girls who give you instructions whereas you are fucking them, and who think this is dominance.
The first kind (BDMS girls) I don't know how to deal with them, because all this shit make me run away ^^
The second kind, is very easy to handle : when you fuck a girl, and she gives you instruction, put your hand on her mouth, and she will stop thinking she dominates you ^^
No when i say "dominant girls" here, i mean these girls who want be on top of you, push you onto the bed, and ride you like a boss. These girls who want control the sex, be the one in charge, and be the one who fuck you.
Why dominate them ? Why don't let them do what they want ?
It's a question I hear or read sometimes. I think she deserves to be asked :it's true, that a wild girl who takes things in charge, and start to ride you wildly is an idea more exciting than a girl who won't do anything in bed...
And it's true to say that this kind of sex (the girl on top of you) may be very good if the girl is skilled.
And actually, many guys I know are surprised and happy to meet a dominant girl. Because the majority of girls are submissive. So, when they meet a dominant girl, they let her do all what she wants. Personnaly, when I was at the beginin of my sex life, I always let the girl on charge when she was dominant. Then I learned this was a bad idea.
But in my opinion, there are three reasons to dominate dominant girls :
1) Letting her always or often dominate you in bedroom, will put her in the dominant role in all the areas of your relation
2) Whether she is your girlfriend, or a sex friend, letting her always dominate you, may will make her get tired of you. She will be bored on bed with you even if she claims the opposite.
3) A dominant girl who often dominates guys in bed will ADORE be suddenly flipped and banged by a true dominant man. If you do this to her, you will be "the special guy", and she will come back again and again.
How concretely dominate a dominant woman ?
To ansewr this question, let's see what a dominant girl and a submissive guy in action look like :
https://fr.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=865695277
Of course, I know this is a movie scene, and I know that what we see there it's what the director want to show us.
But anyway, we have here a typical "dominant girl sex". So we will take this as illustration.
We can see, that right from the start, the girl is on charge.
-She is more wild and more agressive than the guy.
-She handles the kiss
-She pushes the guy on the bed, and she climbs on him
-SHE takes off HER clothes and the guy clothes
-She fucks him in cowgirl position during the whole thing.
Why all of this ? Because the guy did nothing. He just let her do all what they want. So ok, he had a great sex time, but in real life, if this happened, he wouldn't see this girl many times again.
What would he have do to give her a unusual fuck ? A fuck where she would be the submissive one for once ?
For me, there are differents way to do that :
1) Take control immediately.
Is she hot and wild ? Is she taking over during the kiss ? Is she putting his hands on your body and pushes you, or takes off your clothes ?
If you want dominate her, you can react now. Be as wild as her, grab her by her neck and handle the kiss, take her hands and maker her do whit them what YOU want, and take her and pushes her on the bed.
The message will be clear : she will understand that you are not like all others submissive guys and you will be on charge. Then, join her on the bed, go on top of her and... you know what do next
I assure you, she will adore this, and be happy to come back... And, if she is a playful girl, the next time she will try again to dominate you, to see what happens then... And she'd probably do this to be fucked more harder.
2) Let her be on charge... on beginin.
This is an other way to dominate a dominant woman. Let her take controll, during preliminaries, let her handle the kiss, let her push you on the bed, let her take off your clothers and climb on you... Let her fuck you for a while...and then grab her by her hips, and flip her. Go back on top, and fuck her hard.
For her, the sensation of "brutal lost of control" will be incredibly exicting. One second she was in a classic fuck where she as always was the dominant, and the second after that, she is pinned on the bed, banged by a trume a dominant man who don't ask her permission to do what he wants.
For you, letting her be dominant first, and then take back controll will give you the good sensation of total control. You are so confident and so powerful that you can allow her to fuck you for a while. This will drive you insane.
And the sensation of "renvege fuck" (fucking her, stronger, and faster than she did) is incredible.
3) Letting her on top... but still be the dominant one.
That is in my opinion the ultimate way to dominate her. Let her on top, let her ride you, and act as she wants. But when you want, stay under her, and start fucking her. Give her some wild strokes, and grab her by boobs, ass, or hips, to make her go slowly, whereas you go faster and faster.
This will drives her insane. She is on top, on his favorite position, but for once, she is totally dominated and fucked. The sensation of unusual lost of control will make her mad of you.
Up the domination factor
Doing all of that is enough to give her a very good sex. But you can do better.
With a dominant girl, uping the domination factor will drive her crazy.
The idea is to dominate her not only in a physical aspect, but physcologic one too.
There are classics ways to up the domination factor :
-Push her (onto bed, against wall, etc)
-Pinned her
-Pull her hair
-Spank her ass
In short, make her understand that you are the one in charge, and her body is yours. Many dominant girls do all of this (but in "girl to boy" version), so she will experiment what she does usually. She will looove this.
There are other ways to up the domination factor, who are more specific to dominant girls :
- When she is riding you, don't just flip her back, but carry her, stand up, leave the bed, and fuck her in an other place, like against wall or on desk or table.
This will show her you are in total control, not just because you fuck her, but because you fuck her where you want, and as you want You are the one in control, and the one who decides where the fuck take place.
She will love this feeling, and love be fucked in "anusual" places.
- Taunt her, verbally.
An other way to drive her crazy : when you are on control and fuck her, it's the perfect time to taunt her, and especially if she was on top at the beginin of sex, and taunted you.
A good "so, who is the boss now ?" will make her feel more your dominance.
-Look her in her eyes (eventually with smirking)
-When you are in top and fucking her, let her struggle and try to go back on top. Let her try, and make sure she fails : she will feel that all her efforts are useless, and this will make her feel totally in your power.
-Make her beg. When she is about to cum, make sure she doesn't have her orgasm, before she begs you for its. This will be the ultim step to her submission and she will love surrender as this.
That's all ideas I have to dominate a dominant woman. I love doing all of this, and dominant girls I banged this way usually come back for more !
And you ? What do you do when you meet a dominant girls ?