Quote: (10-23-2018 03:44 PM)Professor When Wrote:
Yesterday I texted her "so, you ready for that date yet." She responded with a "no thank you," then a lengthy paragraph about a place I might like to work (I had previously mentioned getting bored at my job). She seems to want to spend time with me, but is opposed to dating.
We're getting coffee tomorrow. I really don't give a crap where this ends up, but I would like to do something other than tell her to fuck off. Do I act like the coffee is a date and just try to escalate? Help me turn this into a learning experience.
It sounds like it's more effort than it's worth to me. See what she talks about and if she gives any indication of interest in you beyond just hanging out as friends.
If she's opposed to dating, I'd assume she either has her eyes set on another guy and wants to use you as a backup male or just wants to fuck you at most. Or at the very least just likes male attention.
See how it pans out in other words. You'll know if it's worth your time soon enough.