Every article online is about how to tell your partner and work through it but let's face it, for the most part it's not a realistic option.
Does anyone know of a "flowchart" of what to do if you have an STD that you got outside the LTR but don't want to break up the LTR?
Something like:
Your test result is negative - Stop here
Your test result is positive - 1. Does your GF have it? (how to discreetly *test* her)
Your GF doesn't have it - Stop here
Your GF has it - Did she get it from you or did you get it from her (how to discreetly spy on her to determine if she's getting shagged by someone else).
Your GF is seeing someone else - Stop here (you just got your ticket out of an LTR)
Nothing points to your GF seeing anyone else - (How to obtain antibiotics without sending her to the clinic, how to get her to consume a course of antibiotics without her knowledge)
Obviously filling in the "How to"s within () are where the ideas need to come in. Maybe this thread could be the start.
Does anyone know of a "flowchart" of what to do if you have an STD that you got outside the LTR but don't want to break up the LTR?
Something like:
Your test result is negative - Stop here
Your test result is positive - 1. Does your GF have it? (how to discreetly *test* her)
Your GF doesn't have it - Stop here
Your GF has it - Did she get it from you or did you get it from her (how to discreetly spy on her to determine if she's getting shagged by someone else).
Your GF is seeing someone else - Stop here (you just got your ticket out of an LTR)
Nothing points to your GF seeing anyone else - (How to obtain antibiotics without sending her to the clinic, how to get her to consume a course of antibiotics without her knowledge)
Obviously filling in the "How to"s within () are where the ideas need to come in. Maybe this thread could be the start.