Hello guys.
The thread title is self explanatory, I think.
As some people might know, I am a Senegalese guy and I have been in the French city I am for 2 years.
During these past weeks I have been in contact with a lot of girls, especially foreign girls, and ERASMUS students. I find it very tricky to setup a date, and even tough I try a couple touches from time to time (like 1 or 2s long) to distinguish myself from the other ERASMUS buddies, I see no follow-up from them. They all ask me the same things: where are you from, what are your studies, how long have you been in xxxx-the city I live in, do you plan on staying here, etc etc, and that's it: they don't ask more personal questions, nor get closer in to my personal space.
Even when alcohol is involved (binge drinking nights, you all know what I am talking about), I can see some of them making out and isolated with the handsome ERASMUS lads, but that's all. I could not even get a freaking makeout during the freshmen party with 1000+ people (got pretty much always rejected when I tried to get a girl to dance, I am too ugly lol), so gaming them and escalating during an alcoholic night is out of the question.
On the other hand, if I try social circle, I have to be very careful to not be "that guy" who hits on girls all the time... But how do I ask them out? Most of the time they all stick together, to travel and go out...
Thanks for your help.
The thread title is self explanatory, I think.
As some people might know, I am a Senegalese guy and I have been in the French city I am for 2 years.
During these past weeks I have been in contact with a lot of girls, especially foreign girls, and ERASMUS students. I find it very tricky to setup a date, and even tough I try a couple touches from time to time (like 1 or 2s long) to distinguish myself from the other ERASMUS buddies, I see no follow-up from them. They all ask me the same things: where are you from, what are your studies, how long have you been in xxxx-the city I live in, do you plan on staying here, etc etc, and that's it: they don't ask more personal questions, nor get closer in to my personal space.
Even when alcohol is involved (binge drinking nights, you all know what I am talking about), I can see some of them making out and isolated with the handsome ERASMUS lads, but that's all. I could not even get a freaking makeout during the freshmen party with 1000+ people (got pretty much always rejected when I tried to get a girl to dance, I am too ugly lol), so gaming them and escalating during an alcoholic night is out of the question.
On the other hand, if I try social circle, I have to be very careful to not be "that guy" who hits on girls all the time... But how do I ask them out? Most of the time they all stick together, to travel and go out...
Thanks for your help.