Quote: (06-29-2018 02:15 AM)the-dream Wrote:
Plus a girl from Russia or the Philippines who doesn't get stars in her eyes at the thought of going to the US is definitely a green flag in my book.
Agree completely. No white dudes or American friends is a prerequisite for elevation above harem level.
I have a lot more experience than the two cases I mentioned. The first girl.. I lived in her country and dated her for almost a year there. And the second, there was no expectation of marriage on a visit here, just spending more time together.
As far as moving to a girls country, yes absolutely. And if I wasn’t firmly placed on a good career track to take over a business in a very local industry, I absolutely would. Right now my focus is on really making hay the next 15 years and then retiring and finding a girl overseas. I also have a son in the USA I cant abandon. Being gone a year was damage enough.
Did I waste years? Yea probably. One of the downsides to getting older is armchair quarterbacking your previous crossroads in life, when at the time you were trying to win a small battle amidst a war. But hey, there is only so much you can learn from an Internet forum. You need to live.