Quote: (12-15-2014 11:12 PM)tallandblonde Wrote:
How long is the trip, how long have you been dating this chick, what are your moral standards on cheating, etc? These are all factors that should weigh in to your decision.
If it's for an entire semester I think that's a long time for you to stick together with so much distance between you two. I think the best way for you to have your cake and eat it too would be to break up before going to Russia, bang a bunch of Russian girls, and then make an attempt to pick up the pieces when you get home.
I tend to view everything as temporary though. There are no guarantees that she will wait for you to get home. It would be quite a shame if you went to Russia, spent a lot of time being faithful to your girl, and then it doesn't work out anyways. Failing at making the relationship work and then also not enjoying your trip as much as possible would be my biggest fear.
Moral standards are a bitch because i still have them. I figure that if i see something better in russia though, I can't be blamed for it. I dont think breaking up is a possibility either...
I think that attitude is correct though.