Wow . Good this thread showed up.
It was for sure cathartic to review and identify all those red flags and I imagine you didn't even flagged all of them in your post .
Like you said it was a gift if the miscarriage was true.
I was dumped of a semi LDR of two years and realized that out of the 10 red flags deal breaking list I have for EE girls she failed on 7. But the love bombing and specially thinking we are unique ,and what we read in the internet only happen to others puts some fog and cloud on our minds . That and the mind blowing sex , I will never be sure if I was with a BPD or just a professional gold digger but I almost started going to church to thank god that I never impregnated her and that she just found another target two months before I moved her to my country !!
Hope.your doing fine OP after this time
It was for sure cathartic to review and identify all those red flags and I imagine you didn't even flagged all of them in your post .
Like you said it was a gift if the miscarriage was true.
I was dumped of a semi LDR of two years and realized that out of the 10 red flags deal breaking list I have for EE girls she failed on 7. But the love bombing and specially thinking we are unique ,and what we read in the internet only happen to others puts some fog and cloud on our minds . That and the mind blowing sex , I will never be sure if I was with a BPD or just a professional gold digger but I almost started going to church to thank god that I never impregnated her and that she just found another target two months before I moved her to my country !!
Hope.your doing fine OP after this time