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Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - Lautaro - 12-04-2013
Hello fellow Rooshers.
I would like to introduce myself by saying that this is a great forum and I tip my hats to Roosh the creator. Im Lautaro and im from La Paz, Bolivia and i just came to this country about two years ago. If you haven't all noticed, Bolivia isnt exactly known for their beauty compared to other countries in Latin America like Argentina or Colombia and more recently Mexico based on some threads ive been reading so far.
I have 100% indigenous bloods and I came to the conclusion long ago that im a very ugly guy. I have black hair, very dark skin and indigenous features and big front teeths. I am known as "la ardilla" or "squirrel" by many back home because they say I look like that. The only ass I have ever gotten was from other indigenous looking women. I went to Argentina years ago and it was awful, and was discrimated so horrible based on my looks. Now im in the USA in University of Nebraska where theres lots of white American girls in sororities. Being around so many whites has made me insecure because I stick out like a sore thumb in a negative way.
Because of this I have not have the confidence to talks to these girls. What should a guy like me who is ugly, dark, short (5'3), somewhat chubby do in this country when it comes to the girls?
Is there hope for me? Or should I just subcumb to the fact that I will never get far with American girls. Maybe I should move to Mexico. The girls might be easier there. What do you experts suggest me do?
Gracias.
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - el mechanico - 12-04-2013
Awesome!
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - Steve Derekson - 12-04-2013
Quote: (12-04-2013 06:07 PM)Lautaro Wrote:
Hello fellow Rooshers.
I would like to introduce myself by saying that this is a great forum and I tip my hats to Roosh the creator. Im Lautaro and im from La Paz, Bolivia and i just came to this country about two years ago. If you haven't all noticed, Bolivia isnt exactly known for their beauty compared to other countries in Latin America like Argentina or Colombia and more recently Mexico based on some threads ive been reading so far.
I have 100% indigenous bloods and I came to the conclusion long ago that im a very ugly guy. I have black hair, very dark skin and indigenous features and big front teeths. I am known as "la ardilla" or "squirrel" by many back home because they say I look like that. The only ass I have ever gotten was from other indigenous looking women. I went to Argentina years ago and it was awful, and was discrimated so horrible based on my looks. Now im in the USA in University of Nebraska where theres lots of white American girls in sororities. Being around so many whites has made me insecure because I stick out like a sore thumb in a negative way.
Because of this I have not have the confidence to talks to these girls. What should a guy like me who is ugly, dark, short (5'3), somewhat chubby do in this country when it comes to the girls?
Is there hope for me? Or should I just subcumb to the fact that I will never get far with American girls. Maybe I should move to Mexico. The girls might be easier there. What do you experts suggest me do?
Gracias.
Classic limiting belief. Looks matter, but they are an low percentage in the equation. An ugly game with good game will pull more than a good-looking guy with no game.
I'm 6 foot 5, and good-looking (excuse the immodesty), and I very rarely had sex until I started getting good at game. It is surpising you mention Argentina, where even the top players with great looks have problems.
As long as you stay in countries where women are relatively easy, and the US is such a country, and you learn game, you will get far. Some girls will reject you solely on your looks, but most will reject you because of the insecurity you show.
Drop the insecurity, and you will pull. It might take you more sets than most guys, but you will pull. With the insecurity it will take you thousands of sets, without it, maybe 15-20 will cut it.
I have acne on my back, so what I did was walk shirtless down the main shopping street in Madrid on a Saturday afternoon.
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - Lucario - 12-04-2013
If they give you shit about your looks, remember that America is know for being superficial and having haters. They are the ones with the problem...I mean it is not like your unhealthy and fat..this is something you can't change...so the best thing you can do is own it.
Now look matter, you cannot have you sour grapes about it, you just need to make up in other departments.
You either agree and amplify or change the frame.
Get a cool style and try to stand out even more with unique shirts and pants ( don't go over board and do not do the whole mystery method peacocking).
Be extremely high energy and animated, and be very loud and show that you don't give a fuck about it.
Live like you have nothing to lose. There is something endearing and attractive about that quality that people in general like.
It will gain you respect.
Ofcourse work on social skill and try to make as many friends as you can and learn a new skill like become a DJ or play the electric guitar.
Tease girls hard, but pull back once you over do it.
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - Col. Tigh - 12-04-2013
Quote: (12-04-2013 06:07 PM)Lautaro Wrote:
What should a guy like me who is ugly, dark, short (5'3), somewhat chubby do in this country when it comes to the girls?
Medical limb lengthening.
BTW--anyone else catch a whiff of toll bridge in here?
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - Christian McQueen - 12-04-2013
If you're that ugly as you say...
Then take out student loans and get plastic surgery.
Bad teeth? Can be fixed as well.
It may be extreme but you only get one life.
Yes, your inner game needs to be worked on, but let's not kid ourselves and say that if the OP really looks like Shrek it won't affect him pulling girls.
Limiting beliefs are a Catch 22. If I BELIEVE with 100% of my soul that I can be as good at B-Ball as Lebron, it doesn't make it so. He has GENETIC traits and a lifetime of training that I will never be able to compete with. That's not what we want to hear, but it's the damn facts.
Make a list of every physical 'flaw' and post it on this thread. I'll break down what you can do to fix it, if you're serious about making massive change.
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - el mechanico - 12-04-2013
Lol @ McQueen getting
![[Image: troll.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/troll.gif)
on all these height threads
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - Christian McQueen - 12-04-2013
^Trolls need love too.
Even the short ones.
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - MidWest - 12-04-2013
Ive said this before and Ill say it again. You cannot change who you are physically. You just cant. You have to face the fact that sometimes you cannot be 6 foot tall or have good genetics. You should focus on things you can change rather than the things you cant. For instance your game, your style, grooming, etc...
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - STLMO - 12-04-2013
Bienvenidos a mi pais Ardilla,
Start hitting the elyptical machine at the gym at school, mix in some light weight lifting, start playing the guitar, and take advantage of American chics who are obsessed with Latin America. In a place like Nebraska, you should be able to use that to your advantage. Have no shame in your game, and keep your pimp hand strong.
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - STLMO - 12-04-2013
Btw, Alterna-chics & hipstresses should be your target market. They love brown people. Use your status as a Latino/Indian to your advantage, lose the fat.
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - Virtus - 12-04-2013
It has Evolved!! AmerIndian Race Troll
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - golfer300 - 12-04-2013
Quote: (12-04-2013 06:07 PM)Lautaro Wrote:
Hello fellow Rooshers.
I would like to introduce myself by saying that this is a great forum and I tip my hats to Roosh the creator. Im Lautaro and im from La Paz, Bolivia and i just came to this country about two years ago. If you haven't all noticed, Bolivia isnt exactly known for their beauty compared to other countries in Latin America like Argentina or Colombia and more recently Mexico based on some threads ive been reading so far.
I have 100% indigenous bloods and I came to the conclusion long ago that im a very ugly guy. I have black hair, very dark skin and indigenous features and big front teeths. I am known as "la ardilla" or "squirrel" by many back home because they say I look like that. The only ass I have ever gotten was from other indigenous looking women. I went to Argentina years ago and it was awful, and was discrimated so horrible based on my looks. Now im in the USA in University of Nebraska where theres lots of white American girls in sororities. Being around so many whites has made me insecure because I stick out like a sore thumb in a negative way.
Because of this I have not have the confidence to talks to these girls. What should a guy like me who is ugly, dark, short (5'3), somewhat chubby do in this country when it comes to the girls?
Is there hope for me? Or should I just subcumb to the fact that I will never get far with American girls. Maybe I should move to Mexico. The girls might be easier there. What do you experts suggest me do?
Gracias.
Sounds like someone needs to lift some weights and become a spartan.
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - BishesMyron - 12-05-2013
I probably gonna get shit for saying this but looks do matter... to some extend. Marketers obviously use "looks dont matter" to sell their PUA books and shit.
While girls don't go deep into visual things like we do (ass, boobs, facial geometry), I believe they categorize guys into repulsive, cute and hot category. If your looks are enough to check their list, then there isn't much difference between you and Brad Pitt as long as you got your "game" tight, but if you look like you stand out in the bad way... try to find solutions instead of thinking there is hope
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - Parlay44 - 12-05-2013
Just be the best you can. Work out. Get fit. Focus on career and making money.
Dress well. And just be as cool as you can. When you develop inner confidence
you start to put out "a vibe" that women pick up on. They may even approach you!!
And even more importantly ...approach women. Millions of them. It's a numbers
game my friend. And don't get so stuck on white girls. They're not all that.
White girls still bitch and bleed just like any other women.
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - Nascimento - 12-05-2013
Man if you're ugly and make up for it by working on your body, grooming and dressing well than you are ahead of most good looking guys already.
Just look at Daniel Craig. The guy looks like a boss, and looks attractive. He is ugly, but is attractive.
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - bodmon - 12-05-2013
definitely trolololol but will answer anyway
consider surgery for nose, jaw, teeth
get a good haircut
wear nice clothes
wear lifts
get piercings and tattoos
take steroids
enter social circles and/or approach A LOT
adjust standards
Being ugly and insecure about your looks! - kosko - 12-05-2013
Women don't see ugly men, they only see weak men.
Lift weights. Start training and try out for the Rugby team. It's not football but it will help you develop confidence and a support system of good people around you.
Your being weak. That's what is limiting you. Being the new guy whom sticks out is a advantage. Your International and thus cooler then 97% of Nebraska, milk it.