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Older Guys (40+) - JayJuanGee - 07-30-2014
Quote: (07-30-2014 05:11 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Quote: (07-28-2014 12:58 AM)Rubio93 Wrote:
my 13 year old daughter seems to call everybody "sir"
In 5 years, when she goes off to college..
She is going to be calling me SIR!
I'm half joking but I'm also half serious. I may run into your daughter on a college campus.
This might offend you or scare you but it shouldn't..
I promise I will treat her well, look after her, feed her, and make sure she gets home safely.
I will also encourage her to do well in school, work hard, be healthy, and avoid stupid people.
She will be safer with me than with almost anyone else.
Young girls say that I spoil them and it's hard to go back to dating boys their own age.
I treat all my girls very well.
No disrespect Rubio! I'm mostly joking! Viva Colombia!
She will say: " I sure like that nice ole man, sir, with the walker. He treats me well."
Older Guys (40+) - horn - 07-30-2014
Quote: (07-30-2014 05:03 PM)Rubio93 Wrote:
To sum up, don't get offended if some college age girl is calling you "sir" because to her the term is probably completely age-neutral.
I prefer they call me 'Sir,' it's better imo than 'Daddy...'
Older Guys (40+) - Rubio93 - 07-30-2014
Quote: (07-30-2014 05:11 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
Quote: (07-28-2014 12:58 AM)Rubio93 Wrote:
my 13 year old daughter seems to call everybody "sir"
In 5 years, when she goes off to college..
She is going to be calling me SIR!
I'm half joking but I'm also half serious. I may run into your daughter on a college campus.
This might offend you or scare you but it shouldn't..
I promise I will treat her well, look after her, feed her, and make sure she gets home safely.
I will also encourage her to do well in school, work hard, be healthy, and avoid stupid people.
She will be safer with me than with almost anyone else.
Young girls say that I spoil them and it's hard to go back to dating boys their own age.
I treat all my girls very well.
No disrespect Rubio! I'm mostly joking! Viva Colombia!
Remember, my daughter has been educated by yours truly. I cannot take responsibility if she cuts your unit off and hands it to you in pieces.
![[Image: wink.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/wink.gif)
In all seriousness, she's more alpha than I am. I almost feel sorry for her poor bf's.... ALMOST
Older Guys (40+) - Nomad77 - 07-30-2014
Most young girls today don't need any protection from men. They are the alpha females and the boys the beta males. I look at young girls in groups and almost always one of the girls is the leader of any mixed group. It is even difficult for me to dominate a young girl today. Most young guys don't stand a chance.
Older Guys (40+) - Rubio93 - 07-30-2014
My daughter can spot 99% of game 5 miles away with her eyes closed and her nose blocked.... I taught her from a young age and it's SCARY how easily she got it!!
Older Guys (40+) - JayJuanGee - 07-30-2014
Quote: (07-30-2014 06:13 PM)Rubio93 Wrote:
My daughter can spot 99% of game 5 miles away with her eyes closed and her nose blocked.... I taught her from a young age and it's SCARY how easily she got it!!
I would have thought that usually women (such as the mom) teach young girls about these kinds of matters. Of course, she will have various influences from the father as well, and there would be cultural variations too, concerning style, expectations and/or permissiveness.
Also, there is a difference too between what they do, and what they tell you they are planning to do under various hypotheticals. Guys here, frequently know that even a girl does NOT always know what she wants or what she will do, especially when she is younger and attempting to find herself. In that regard, I was of the impression that guys like to use the vulnerabilities of the youth to influence them - I frequently attempt to exploit those kinds of youthful vulnerabilities when I have such opportunities.
Older Guys (40+) - Nomad77 - 07-30-2014
I have no idea why fathers want to protect their daughters from having sex. I would want my daughter to have all the sex she can get. I tell young girls you have a window of 10 yrs from 15 - 25 when you will be in your sexual prime. You better take advantage of it and have all the sex you can get because the older you get the less of it you will get. Then from 25 -28 use this time to lock in a decent husband if you want one.
Older Guys (40+) - Dantes - 07-30-2014
What countries have offered you the largest age difference? I am also curious about how you met these girls. I am 38. My experiences have been:
Colombia:
I am in Colombia now and I can date/bang 19 or 20. Mostly daygame, internet and a little social circle. However, these girls are very flaky (flakiness is all relative here). I am enjoying my time 25-30 year olds more.
Brazil:
I was 36 the last time I was in brazil and I was banging a 19 and 21 year old. Both from internet. Also had a social circle...the girls I met from there were mid 20s to early 30s.
Poland (Wroclaw)
At 37 I had a difficult time with a larger than 10 year age difference. As I mentioned before, skip Wroclaw if you are older than 35.
Kiev and Romania
At 37 met some great girls daygaming 19-24 years old. Wish I had more time there. I also did internet in Kiev but I found the best girls I met were from daygame.
NYC
I occasionally pull girls in their early 20s but the norm is about a year age difference.
I haven't been to Asia yet. My next destination...
* There isn't a better feeling than banging a beautiful girl much younger. I didn't really appreciate this until I hit my mid 30s. However, for mini relationships/relationships I have found that a ten year age difference is optimal for me in the US and 10-15 years outside the US.
Older Guys (40+) - Rubio93 - 07-30-2014
Sometimes it pays to be a little patient with the flakes here especially with the under 25 crowd. They could have logistics issues, not that it excuses the behavior BUT
One girl flaked on me for Saturday and wanted to reschedule for the next day. I agreed and she was late as hell BUT once we got up to my house she made a beeline for the bedroom! And the sex was pretty fucking stellar.
I tell my kids they are free to do whatever they want as it is their own lives. I strongly recommended that they NOT get married but ultimately that's up to them. I also explained to them how a woman's fertility cycle works, and how STDs work so they know how to protect themselves, but ultimately THAT is up to them too
Older Guys (40+) - Dantes - 07-30-2014
Quote: (07-30-2014 08:12 PM)Rubio93 Wrote:
Sometimes it pays to be a little patient with the flakes here especially with the under 25 crowd. They could have logistics issues, not that it excuses the behavior BUT
One girl flaked on me for Saturday and wanted to reschedule for the next day. I agreed and she was late as hell BUT once we got up to my house she made a beeline for the bedroom! And the sex was pretty fucking stellar.
I tell my kids they are free to do whatever they want as it is their own lives. I strongly recommended that they NOT get married but ultimately that's up to them. I also explained to them how a woman's fertility cycle works, and how STDs work so they know how to protect themselves, but ultimately THAT is up to them too
I have been for the most part. I have accepted it. I make sure I have something else to do or a double-book dates. I have also found that flaking doesn't necessarily mean she isn't down. Case in point your example. I thought Brazilian girls were bad with being late and flaking but Colombian girls take the prize.
Older Guys (40+) - Rubio93 - 07-31-2014
I just try to always remember that 99% of the time they are LYING to people so they can be able to see you, so it's a bit tricky.....
Older Guys (40+) - Vaun - 08-02-2014
Quote: (07-30-2014 04:47 PM)Sugar Wrote:
Truly, bro. Women 33-40 are unbelievable, especially white women. Delusionally self-confident. I have made the stupid mistake of going on tinder dates with these chicks on far too many occasions.
I make this mistake too. I use Tinder when I am lazy. And Tinder for me is like porn, I look at a lot of profiles of hot girls, but its an illusion.
Lets see, this week I matched to a seemingly very attractive 33 year old. Columbian, long black hair, beautiful face. Go on the date, and how do I explain this, her top half was a 7 bordering an 8, truly pretty girl. Her bottom half was disgustingly obese. I am not just saying plump. Like she had some disease, her lower legs were bigger than my thighs. These werent cankles, they were thankles(thigh into ankle, or Tinder ankles). I threw up a little bit in my mouth, had one drink with her, nice girl, good little conversation, done.
Took out another girl this week from Tinder. 30 year old Venezualan new to the US. We had some fun, but she got crazy Latina after we drank and she was nuts.
I am done with Tinder. I deleted it again, and I am not going back. Contrast that with this.
I daygame everyday. It makes me happy and is a mood elevator. Whatever is going on in my life, it brings me up. But some men know this, and live this way. My dad is like this, lots of older guys are like this. Its just inherent to being a male, its not "daygame".
Sometimes when I daygame I approach a girl out of sheer frustration out of a previously crappy approach. I approached this girl and didnt really even look at her other than she had a cute face. She gave me her number and we were from the same hometown. We hit off. She texted me all week. We met for lunch a few days later. I didnt recognize her at first, because she was way more smoking hot than I remember. Much more than I remember. Easily an 8, easily mobbed by men everywhere. We had a nice lunch. Shes 21. No drama. Nice conversation. We are going out again tomorrow, probably one of the hottest girls I have ever dated. I am sort of freaking out now, like I did when I was a kid dating a girl for the first time, frantically reading Roissy age difference articles. I may be pedastalizing but who cares, feels kinda good.
Last night, walking home, bump into another pretty girl with a Yankees hat, cute as hell, got her number, went for the insta date she stammered, I got the number and left. Totally meets when I think is my type in looks and personality. We will meet up later today.
Natural selection game is choosing with your eyes, in person, who you are most attracted to. Tinder/Online is fake, weak and unnatural. It wastes time, money and energy. To me online is soft core porn, pointless.
Older Guys (40+) - Dantes - 08-02-2014
Quote: (08-02-2014 09:49 AM)Vaun Wrote:
Quote: (07-30-2014 04:47 PM)Sugar Wrote:
Truly, bro. Women 33-40 are unbelievable, especially white women. Delusionally self-confident. I have made the stupid mistake of going on tinder dates with these chicks on far too many occasions.
I make this mistake too. I use Tinder when I am lazy. And Tinder for me is like porn, I look at a lot of profiles of hot girls, but its an illusion.
Lets see, this week I matched to a seemingly very attractive 33 year old. Columbian, long black hair, beautiful face. Go on the date, and how do I explain this, her top half was a 7 bordering an 8, truly pretty girl. Her bottom half was disgustingly obese. I am not just saying plump. Like she had some disease, her lower legs were bigger than my thighs. These werent cankles, they were thankles(thigh into ankle, or Tinder ankles). I threw up a little bit in my mouth, had one drink with her, nice girl, good little conversation, done.
Took out another girl this week from Tinder. 30 year old Venezualan new to the US. We had some fun, but she got crazy Latina after we drank and she was nuts.
I am done with Tinder. I deleted it again, and I am not going back. Contrast that with this.
I daygame everyday. It makes me happy and is a mood elevator. Whatever is going on in my life, it brings me up. But some men know this, and live this way. My dad is like this, lots of older guys are like this. Its just inherent to being a male, its not "daygame".
Sometimes when I daygame I approach a girl out of sheer frustration out of a previously crappy approach. I approached this girl and didnt really even look at her other than she had a cute face. She gave me her number and we were from the same hometown. We hit off. She texted me all week. We met for lunch a few days later. I didnt recognize her at first, because she was way more smoking hot than I remember. Much more than I remember. Easily an 8, easily mobbed by men everywhere. We had a nice lunch. Shes 21. No drama. Nice conversation. We are going out again tomorrow, probably one of the hottest girls I have ever dated. I am sort of freaking out now, like I did when I was a kid dating a girl for the first time, frantically reading Roissy age difference articles. I may be pedastalizing but who cares, feels kinda good.
Last night, walking home, bump into another pretty girl with a Yankees hat, cute as hell, got her number, went for the insta date she stammered, I got the number and left. Totally meets when I think is my type in looks and personality. We will meet up later today.
Natural selection game is choosing with your eyes, in person, who you are most attracted to. Tinder/Online is fake, weak and unnatural. It wastes time, money and energy. To me online is soft core porn, pointless.
The quality from daygame far exceed the quality from Tinder or other online dating sites in the US, especially for girls significantly younger.
Older Guys (40+) - Dantes - 08-02-2014
Quote: (08-02-2014 09:49 AM)Vaun Wrote:
Quote: (07-30-2014 04:47 PM)Sugar Wrote:
Truly, bro. Women 33-40 are unbelievable, especially white women. Delusionally self-confident. I have made the stupid mistake of going on tinder dates with these chicks on far too many occasions.
I make this mistake too. I use Tinder when I am lazy. And Tinder for me is like porn, I look at a lot of profiles of hot girls, but its an illusion.
Lets see, this week I matched to a seemingly very attractive 33 year old. Columbian, long black hair, beautiful face. Go on the date, and how do I explain this, her top half was a 7 bordering an 8, truly pretty girl. Her bottom half was disgustingly obese. I am not just saying plump. Like she had some disease, her lower legs were bigger than my thighs. These werent cankles, they were thankles(thigh into ankle, or Tinder ankles). I threw up a little bit in my mouth, had one drink with her, nice girl, good little conversation, done.
Took out another girl this week from Tinder. 30 year old Venezualan new to the US. We had some fun, but she got crazy Latina after we drank and she was nuts.
I am done with Tinder. I deleted it again, and I am not going back. Contrast that with this.
I daygame everyday. It makes me happy and is a mood elevator. Whatever is going on in my life, it brings me up. But some men know this, and live this way. My dad is like this, lots of older guys are like this. Its just inherent to being a male, its not "daygame".
Sometimes when I daygame I approach a girl out of sheer frustration out of a previously crappy approach. I approached this girl and didnt really even look at her other than she had a cute face. She gave me her number and we were from the same hometown. We hit off. She texted me all week. We met for lunch a few days later. I didnt recognize her at first, because she was way more smoking hot than I remember. Much more than I remember. Easily an 8, easily mobbed by men everywhere. We had a nice lunch. Shes 21. No drama. Nice conversation. We are going out again tomorrow, probably one of the hottest girls I have ever dated. I am sort of freaking out now, like I did when I was a kid dating a girl for the first time, frantically reading Roissy age difference articles. I may be pedastalizing but who cares, feels kinda good.
Last night, walking home, bump into another pretty girl with a Yankees hat, cute as hell, got her number, went for the insta date she stammered, I got the number and left. Totally meets when I think is my type in looks and personality. We will meet up later today.
Natural selection game is choosing with your eyes, in person, who you are most attracted to. Tinder/Online is fake, weak and unnatural. It wastes time, money and energy. To me online is soft core porn, pointless.
The quality from daygame far exceeds the quality from Tinder or other online dating sites in the US, especially for girls significantly younger.
Older Guys (40+) - Nomad77 - 08-02-2014
While I know some guys that do well online I personally do terrible but I prefer the instant feedback you get from approaching a girl in person. You know right away where you stand. You may not know if she will go out with you but you can know if she's attracted to you.
Older Guys (40+) - MrXY - 08-02-2014
For you older guys who have limiting beliefs about age differences- I'm 52 and I got straight up direct approached and picked up by a 24 year old in a bar Wednesday night.
Was sitting in my favorite pickup bar by myself as usual just sipping a beer- the place wasn't too busy and there weren't any good opportunities or so I thought. I did see two girls sitting some distance down the bar, a blonde 6.2 and a brunette 5.9 but I dismissed them as being too young and at any rate they were busy talking to each other. (limiting beliefs). I looked over at them occasionally but never caught them looking at me.
After 30 minutes, I saw something out of the corner of my eye, turned and found the blonde standing next to me
Her: Are you sitting by yourself?
Me: Yes
Her: Hi I'm Julie
Me: blah, blah
She sat down and we talked for maybe 20 minutes then the friend came over and talked to her for a moment then turned to me
Friend: Can I ask you a question?
Me: OK (here comes the cockblock I'm thinking)
Friend: How old are you?
Me: How old do you think I am?
Friend: 40?
Girl: 39?
Me: Actually I'm 43
Friend: Oh wow, If I look as good as you at 43 I'll be very happy!
Friend was totally cool after that and left us alone. We talked for an hour after that and I number closed her. Probably nothing will come of it but it illustrates the point that there are definitely young women who are strongly attracted to men much older than them. She had to know I was 15-20 years older than her when she approached me. i failed to approach her because she and her friend were "too young" but she proved that was just in my head.
This also proves another point I've observed-that young women have difficulty determining how old an older man is because they don't have much experience interacting in them, especially in a sexual context. Even if they were just being polite by underguessing my age, there is no way they thought I was 52. Young women don't recognize the more subtle signs of age. It goes the other way too- I've learned that I'm not good at all at determining the age of girls in their 20s. Most often I think they are younger than they actually are, leading to me cockblocking myself by not approaching because I think she is too young. I've been surprised numerous times by a girl turning out to be 5-6 years older than I thought she was.
Older Guys (40+) - rudebwoy - 08-02-2014
^ thanks and good timing. I have a girl 29 years my junior dropping hints at work, time to close.
Older Guys (40+) - el mechanico - 08-02-2014
If you guys want me to contribute here.. 40+ means that. Start a new thread please. It's not guys speculating what it's going to be like or 'I'm 36 but' or 'at 37 I feel' or ' you need'
Older Guys (40+) - JayJuanGee - 08-02-2014
Quote: (08-02-2014 06:33 PM)el mechanico Wrote:
If you guys want me to contribute here.. 40+ means that. Start a new thread please. It's not guys speculating what it's going to be like or 'I'm 36 but' or 'at 37 I feel' or ' you need'
GRAAAAWWW!!!!! What a temper!
Older Guys (40+) - robreke - 09-07-2014
Any of you older guys hang out at college/university libraries and hit up students in there?
I thought it would be a good place to hang out with your laptop or book and pretend you're taking some classes and studying.
Seems like a good place to let them come to you. I'd like to know how anyone ( if they have ) has used this for two reasons....1. You're obviously older and hanging out in a college library and 2. People are supposed to be "quiet" in a library.
I was thinking of using a college library the same way you do coffee shop game.
Comments welcome from the younger crowd too.
Older Guys (40+) - nomadiam - 09-07-2014
Quote: (08-25-2008 03:06 PM)ManAbout Wrote:
Quote: (08-14-2008 06:52 PM)GMoney Wrote:
Good question. I just hit 40, and all of a sudden, the "Game' that has worked for me all these years has tanked. I think the key is have money, or be in better shape than guys your age. I bought a nice looking 5 year old BMW, and I try and work out as much as I can, also using gym time to socialize. I posted the other day about where to find women, because at 40, the nightclub hasn't been working like it used to. However, Roosh is right about the local "dive" bar. If a woman is in there, drinking alone, she is probably looking to hookup. Just like Michael Jordan, my averages have dropped since I turned 40, for sure.
I think it is because you are taking the "damn, I am 40" mentality with you when you talk to women. I dont see how it would change that drastically. It is not like your looks decline dramatically the moment the calenday shows 40. Men dont age the same way that women do. If you are taking care of yourself and exercising regularly you should look pretty much the same as you did 10 years ago.
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That's what I was thinking. I also just turned 40 and it does mess with your head a little, but it's not like all of a sudden that girls aren't interested because you've crossed some imaginary threshold.
Older Guys (40+) - el mechanico - 09-07-2014
Well maybe it's time for me to get involved.
Older Guys (40+) - JayJuanGee - 09-07-2014
Quote: (09-07-2014 07:37 PM)el mechanico Wrote:
Well maybe it's time for me to get involved.
What you gonna say, ole fella? we are all ears.
Isn't one of the litmus tests to participation in this particular threads that you gotta be old (over 40 that is)?
Older Guys (40+) - Green-On-GO - 09-08-2014
I'm 43 but get away with 36 .A couple of mates are my age all divorced but we make enough money.Also we are ex military and police so there has always been a huge fitness culture in my group since we were 20..Even now there is little tolerance for being out of shape..Its your looking good buddy or You fat cunt start training or its are you training mate?..And I thank them for it.Having peers who believe in fitness is a major benefit for the older swordsman.
I also have younger friends which keeps me younger I think and they also have no tolerance for being unfit.....fuck it I really believe I'm 36 anyway.
Just check out Springsteen's shape at 65, fuck being a sugar daddy that's what I want to look like at 65.
Older Guys (40+) - MY DETROIT PLAYAS - 09-08-2014
For me, being in my 40's has been it's own auto-filtering process for younger chick's and BS
They tend to hook harder too
They figure that I'm too old and impatient to play games with them like a 20 something year old
They are either all in or all out