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Hooking up with a married girl - TrueStory - 11-06-2013
I don't want this thread to turn into "morality" discussion.
How you done it?
Would you knowingly hookup with a married girl?
Would you continue seeing her?
I have recently developed a fetish for those women. (Yeah, I know, supposedly, I will see ya'll in hell
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)But on a serious note, I searched the forum and nobody brought this up. If you think it's wrong, just say that. I personally find delusion of monogamy repulsive in "happy couples". It only works first few years, then someone is surely cheating. It's inevitable... so why not be her "means to an end"?
Hooking up with a married girl - Plutoman - 11-06-2013
I probably would do drunk hook-ups, but I wouldn't do anything more. Bad karma, really. Sure, it'll happen, and it'd be some other dude she screws instead, but I'll still hold to my own level of standards. Wouldn't judge anyone who did, though.
Hooking up with a married girl - markus85 - 11-06-2013
I haven't done it but I've had opportunities. With the divorce rate the way it is when I'm buying groceries the amount of women in the 30-40 bracket without a ring was higher than even I anticipated...they would be easy targets imo.
Hooking up with a married girl - aphelion - 11-06-2013
Quote: (11-06-2013 02:28 AM)TrueStory Wrote:
I don't want this thread to turn into "morality" discussion.
How you done it?
Would you knowingly hookup with a married girl?
Would you continue seeing her?
I have recently developed a fetish for those women. (Yeah, I know, supposedly, I will see ya'll in hell
But on a serious note, I searched the forum and nobody brought this up. If you think it's wrong, just say that. I personally find delusion of monogamy repulsive in "happy couples". It only works first few years, then someone is surely cheating. It's inevitable... so why not be her "means to an end"?
Unrelated to the topic, but thanks for reminding me of this awesome song and video, gonna jam to it a bit:
I've smashed a few married chicks in my life. Can't say I wouldn't do it again.
Hooking up with a married girl - worldwidetraveler - 11-06-2013
Quote: (11-06-2013 02:28 AM)TrueStory Wrote:
How you done it?
Yep, a couple of times. One was my project manager and another the wife of an owner of the company I was working at. Both times it happened after heavy drinking.
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Would you knowingly hookup with a married girl?
Sure, but it depends on the situation. I am not looking for additional problems in my life but a one time deal would be fine by me.
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Would you continue seeing her?
More than likely not. I fucked the project manager a couple of times but put an end to it. The other time was a one time thing.
Hooking up with a married girl - Sargon of Akkad - 11-06-2013
Quote: (11-06-2013 02:28 AM)TrueStory Wrote:
How (have?) you done it?
The second girl I had sex with here said she was a housewife the first time we met. She was 23 and supposedly married to a 38 year old salaryman.
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Would you knowingly hookup with a married girl?
My personal policy is I'll never hook up with a girl whose boyfriend or husband I'm acquainted with -- even more so if either of them are in any way part of my social circle. If I've so much as shaken hands or exchanged words with him before, that's just asking for trouble. On the other hand, if I don't know him, then she's free game as far as I'm concerned.
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Would you continue seeing her?
I'm not sure, but currently I could only imagine seeing a married/taken woman if she's in some kind of long distance thing. The closer her husband/boyfriend is the more it is merely a matter of time before this blows up in your face. Ceterum censeo Osakam esse delendam!
Hooking up with a married girl - Brisey - 11-06-2013
I did it about 10 years ago. I was slamming a girl I worked with, her husband was in the same office and I used to play football with him.
It went on for a couple of months and one day I was at her place whilst he was out, banging her in the bedroom and we heard the front door go, he had returned much earlier than expected. I grabbed my clothes, had to hide under the bed then snuck out whilst he was in the bathroom.
I called it off after that as it was getting too risky.
Hooking up with a married girl - eradicator - 11-06-2013
You can definitely find married women in online dating. They catch their spouse cheating, throw together a profile and look for dick.
I never went after married women, not because of any ethical reasons, but rather I just didn't want that sort of drama in my life.
Hooking up with a married girl - TrueStory - 11-06-2013
Quote: (11-06-2013 05:01 AM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:[/quote]
Quote: (11-06-2013 02:28 AM)TrueStory Wrote:
How (have?) you done it?
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LOL YEAH!! HAVE thanks, i was still sleepy at 7 am
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Hooking up with a married girl - Blue Streak - 11-06-2013
There have been threads on this topic. I know because I did a search for them when considering starting one of my own asking for advice on whether or not to game a married chick I work with. The general consensus seemed to be that it is more hassle than it is worth because of the risk of the husband finding out and coming after you. A user on here named tinderman seems to specialise in picking up married women, though.
Hooking up with a married girl - iknowexactly - 11-06-2013
don't ever go over their house, and make sure he has no way to find where you meet. I have patients who got life for murdering their rival.
did I mention-- don't ever, ever go to their house.
Hooking up with a married girl - Lothario - 11-06-2013
Paging tenderman 100 ......., Search some old posts by him. Authority on RVF for banging married chics, I will see if I can find some of his old posts for you.
Hooking up with a married girl - Sargon of Akkad - 11-06-2013
Also, never exchange any flirtatious or sexually themed messages. Best if she has your number stored under a chic's name, too. As far as he's concerned, you're just another girl she's going out on the town with. Ceterum censeo Osakam esse delendam.
Hooking up with a married girl - RockHard - 11-06-2013
Quote: (11-06-2013 09:49 AM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote:
Also, never exchange any flirtatious or sexually themed messages. Best if she has your number stored under a chic's name, too. As far as he's concerned, you're just another girl she's going out on the town with. Ceterum censeo Osakam esse delendam.
Even if you're single, I'd use a burner phone or Google Voice.
Excellent advice on not going to her house. If she gets found out, a guy is going to be 100x more pissed if he thinks you fucked her in his bed.
Hooking up with a married girl - Sargon of Akkad - 11-06-2013
Quote: (11-06-2013 11:21 AM)RockHard Wrote:
Excellent advice on not going to her house. If she gets found out, a guy is going to be 100x more pissed if he thinks you fucked her in his bed.
Not to mention you're all the more likely to leave evidence of your presence for him to find, either through stains, cologne, hair, condoms, something you may have left there accidentally. Why go through all that trouble?
Same thing the other way around, if you're living with your girl and you've got a mistress on the side. Do NOT give that girl an opportunity to leave strands of hair, blood stains, girl-cum, jewelry, perfume, or any of that shit behind. She WILL notice that shit ain't hers. As a rule of thumb, just don't fuck any place where one of you has a partner/spouse who lives there, too. Ceterum censeo Osakam esse delendam!
Hooking up with a married girl - This Is Trouble - 11-06-2013
I've never done it to a wife'd up girl, just a girlfriend - but I think I would have issues overcoming the morality of it unless I had a few drinks in me.
With that being said, I'd definitely make sure it was a stranger and one night stand kind of situation.
Hooking up with a married girl - outhustleu - 11-06-2013
A drunk hookup after a bar is one thing. I think persuing married women is kinda classless as well ass stupid. I kinda believe in Karma, what you do comes back to you. Why ruin someone else's life? Why bring a more complicated situation and trouble onto yourself.
Hooking up with a married girl - TrueStory - 11-06-2013
Wow, great advice here. Yes, definitely DO NOT go to her house.
I've fucked married girls in US and in my home country as well. Here is how I do it:
- i never go to her house or my house.
- we always use hotel or hourly rooms (common in europe)
- we meet in public and act normal. If we run into anyone - we are old time friends and everything looks casually normal ( i don't think this ever played into anything, somehow meeting in public and having coffee gives her less of a cheating feeling)
- talk on the phone more than text. Some girls I texted with a lot, but she needs to delete her messages (she has a lot more to lose)
- use prepaid throw away number
- usually pay with cash for everything (including hotels and rooms)
- i am always stored in their phone as a girl
- I NEVER initiate conversation (neither by text or calling)
- if she calls first, she says "it's me" before I say "hello" or cancel call and call her back, if she answers it's good. If he answers hang up.
- I don't brag about it to anyone. (sometimes it's kind of hard)
- I never meet a husband but meet her girl friends, they ones that vouch for her
Those are the things that i've consciously thought about while doing it.
I consider fucking a married girl as a community service. I improve her life (she badly needs dick) and/or she realises what a chode she married.
I try to stay away from moms (unfortunately, young-and-married are not eager to cheat yet, it's only after kids come on board, wife is looking for some side-cock)
It's easier to do it when you're always on the go and can take off at any minute. Oh yeah, and no nude pix of each other. I avoid any cameras (tourists, TV, club photographers, anyone with a camera). No social network friendship.
Hooking up with a married girl - Mon - 11-07-2013
From 1999 (when I started writing shit down about chicks) to 2010, I had sex with 23 married chicks. Then one day, it hit me in a certain way just how fucked up that situation could get, so I decided NO MORE MARRIED CHICKs.
Then I moved to Southern Californian 2011 and met a GORGEOUS 19-year old at Barnes & Noble. She invited me to her house three days later and sucked & fucked me.
While talking to a friend and telling him I fucked some chick who lives on the Camp Pendleton military base, he said, "Oh, she's married?" I never thought about it & never asked before. I ACTUALLY JUST ASSUMED SHE LIVED WITH HER MILITARY DAD OR SOME SHIT!!!
Well, I asked her and she VERY reluctantly told me that she was indeed married. THIS BITCH HAD ME COME TO HER HUSBAND'S PLACE & FUCKED ME IN HER HUSBAND'S BED!!! So I half-ass "broke it off" (with the possibility for one more fuck).
Long story short...my phone rang during booty-call hours one night, and I saw her number. I picked up and it was the husband...TALKING SHIT. He obviously read her texts & emails, because he was calling her the nickname that I made up for her.
THREE DAYS LATER, I BUMPED INTO THE TWO OF THEM IN THE SAME BOOKSTORE WHERE WE FIRST MET. He'd never seen me, so he didn't know who I was. She looked at me with utter fear in her eyes. I said nothing. She said nothing...
BUT THAT SHIT COULD'VE GOTTEN REALLY UGLY!!!
Not necessarily for "moral" reasons, but to lower the risk of me having to kill a muthafucka (or be killed), I've chosen to stay away from married broads.
Hooking up with a married girl - WestIndianArchie - 11-08-2013
Yeah I've done it, and when her husband suspected something, he threw her down the stairs.
And guess who that broad was blubbering on the phone too?
If you got the stomach to take the bad with the good, by all means.
WIA
Hooking up with a married girl - Mage - 11-08-2013
It's pointless to expect women, liberals and feminists to respect husbands rights and fatherhood if you don't respect it yourselves by sleeping with married women.
If you bang married chicks you should have the integrity to never complain about decline of western civilization as so many do on manosphere.
Because most men will go for a bang no matter what - that is our common weakness. Slaves to the pussy - even game doesn't change that in most men.
I don't see how women are greater opportunists then men after reading this.
As if there was a shortage of unmarried chicks, divorcees and single mothers.
I once slept with a married chick - in my blue pill pre-game days. I see it as an act of desperation now. She was using me more then I was her.
Hooking up with a married girl - TrueStory - 11-08-2013
Quote: (11-08-2013 01:48 AM)Mage Wrote:You are correct. However, I personally, long ago, realised that marriage is a joke and monogamy is a joke. Maybe it was Selfish Gene (by Dawkins) maybe it was some other stuff I read about polygamy. I am with you on the whole notion of not being a hypocrite, but men also cheat, so that door swings both ways.
It's pointless to expect women, liberals and feminists to respect husbands rights and fatherhood if you don't respect it yourselves by sleeping with married women.
Quote: (11-08-2013 01:48 AM)Mage Wrote:
If you bang married chicks you should have the integrity to never complain about decline of western civilization as so many do on manosphere.
I've ran into more cheating wife in Ukraine than I did in US. It's kind of funny. In Ukraine - traditional marriage is still solid.
Quote: (11-08-2013 01:48 AM)Mage Wrote:Or maybe it's evolutionary strength? If we didn't bang everything that moves, maybe humanity wouldn't make it. Isn't it the point to impregnate a woman and have beta males raise your children, from evolutionary perspective? Morality aside, alphas do not have time to raise children...in a hypothetical world.
Because most men will go for a bang no matter what - that is our common weakness. Slaves to the pussy - even game doesn't change that in most men.
Quote: (11-08-2013 01:48 AM)Mage Wrote:We all are. To get what we want.
I don't see how women are greater opportunists then men after reading this.
Quote: (11-08-2013 01:48 AM)Mage Wrote:My original point wasn't to discuss cons and pros about banging a married chick. I can give you couple, but that's not the point. Yes, there are plenty of available chicks and I am not leaving them out of the equation for a bang. They are there. I wanted to have guys share their perspective and opinion on their experiences.
As if there was a shortage of unmarried chicks, divorcees and single mothers.
I have personally developed a fetish for 'unavailable' women.
Quote: (11-08-2013 01:48 AM)Mage Wrote:
I once slept with a married chick - in my blue pill pre-game days. I see it as an act of desperation now. She was using me more then I was her.
I wouldn't call it act of desperation. It's intriguing and fun.
Hooking up with a married girl - Frank Mackey - 11-08-2013
Quote: (11-06-2013 08:14 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:
don't ever go over their house, and make sure he has no way to find where you meet. I have patients who got life for murdering their rival.
did I mention-- don't ever, ever go to their house.
Happens sometimes in my country. They come back, see her in bed, grab the gun and shoot. Unfortunately this may happen to some poor devil who did not even know she was committed.
Hooking up with a married girl - Therapsid - 11-08-2013
Agree with Mage.
If you're going after married broads, ask yourself why.
Is it because the girls are particularly attractive? Unusually easy to bang?
Or is it because you have a fetish of fucking another man's wife?
I've done the married woman thing, and it feels dirty afterwards every time. Call me a prude, whatever. But marriage has legal consequences. Why should I get involved in estranging a man from his kids? Or in destroying a man financially?
The last married broad told me her husband was waiting up at night at home with her kids, wondering where she was. After that, I've sworn off. But I know I'll probably do it again.
Hooking up with a married girl - ChiTown - 11-08-2013
A question for those of you that have successfully achieved the married bang: Did you ever find that you encountered a certain level of resistance on her behalf, or was this never an issue?
The reason that I ask is because I currently have two prospects (both of which are married, and I'm almost entirely sure are down to bang). One I'm hanging out with alone in the next few days at a bar, and after we set up the venue, she sent a text along the lines of, "I like you a lot, too, but you know this is just platonic, right? You know I'm married!"
Thoughts? Is this just part of the usual game ritual? Any advice from those with prior experience is appreciated.