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Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - VisionsofGandhi - 06-04-2018
We east Africans have good game particularly in Europe and other places we're blacks are quite few. But i don't think it rivals the success of Carribean and African American. Where i live there are a few Black american foreign students in uni. I've never seen anybody slay as much as them but they had high smv so that probably we're a huge factor in their success.
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - jselysianeagle - 06-04-2018
Quote: (06-02-2018 04:40 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:
if I was younger and in a place that was getting me down. I wouldn't bat an eyelid and pack my bags.
Quote: (06-03-2018 11:53 AM)Moma Wrote:
My suggestion to you is that if you feel like the place is getting you down, you should move. I was around your age when I just said fcuk it and just bought my ticket. You only have one life to live and I've seen those who didn't pull the trigger and they have just matured into bitter haters. Something I would never want to be.
Words of wisdom right here. Reminds me of this XKCD comic:
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - coverdoc - 06-06-2018
Fellas about done with my European adventure of Barcelona and Berlin. Will give a brief write in this thread within the next few days. If any brothers have any specific questions let me know i'll answer it in my write up.
-CD
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - WestIndianArchie - 06-06-2018
Quote: (06-06-2018 05:05 PM)coverdoc Wrote:
Fellas about done with my European adventure of Barcelona and Berlin. Will give a brief write in this thread within the next few days. If any brothers have any specific questions let me know i'll answer it in my write up.
-CD
1) Basque/Catalan Girls
2) What was the German talent look like?
Most of the porn in Spain comes out of Barcelona, but I didn't see none of them tattooed suicide chicas when I was there. (I've sampled the Mexico City version of that, and Spanish + body mods is something I rather like)
Haven't been to Berlin though.
WIA
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - BasketBounce - 06-07-2018
1) What was the music like in Barcelona clubs?
In Buenos Aires, they played some energizing mixes of reggaeton, house, and salsa backed up by african-esque percussion.
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - newandimproved - 06-07-2018
Well just got out of a 10 month LTR and am finally a free agent. It was technically an open relationship, but likely only on my end. Eventually, I got hit with an ultimatum for exclusivity (not the first), so I just opted to end things. Best head game of my life (Cathy Haven status) and we had a blast together. I may write about what I did right and wrong at a later date but in the coming weeks I'm gonna be way more active in this thread.
My only other current plate is a 7 nerdy older woman (34) who still has quite the tight body. She's kind of boring outside of the bedroom (yaps about work and other by the numbers topics), but I see her about every week or two. Closed her on night one and she even spent the night.
I have two dates back to back tonight (a thick 6 and 7 hipster) and tomorrow have a date with an 8 actress/yoga instructor that I'm looking forward to. Have only dated white girls in the past year. My goal here is to really up the quality. I've had quite a few chances with 8+ chicks but haven't been converting as often as I could. I am getting much better at getting girls to stick around, however. I've also been mostly focused on online game (the aforementioned girls are all online) but now that I have a lot more free time, I'm gonna resume nightgaming too. Stay tuned...
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - Jack Gignac - 06-07-2018
When I'm daygaming I try to pay attention to the guys who have the hottest girls with them and very very often it's black guys with the hottest white girls. Blacked.com influence? Haha
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - WestIndianArchie - 06-07-2018
Quote: (06-07-2018 02:25 PM)newandimproved Wrote:
Well just got out of a 10 month LTR and am finally a free agent. It was technically an open relationship, but likely only on my end. Eventually, I got hit with an ultimatum for exclusivity (not the first), so I just opted to end things. Best head game of my life (Cathy Haven status) and we had a blast together. I may write about what I did right and wrong at a later date but in the coming weeks I'm gonna be way more active in this thread.
My only other current plate is a 7 nerdy older woman (34) who still has quite the tight body. She's kind of boring outside of the bedroom (yaps about work and other by the numbers topics), but I see her about every week or two. Closed her on night one and she even spent the night.
I have two dates back to back tonight (a thick 6 and 7 hipster) and tomorrow have a date with an 8 actress/yoga instructor that I'm looking forward to. Have only dated white girls in the past year. My goal here is to really up the quality. I've had quite a few chances with 8+ chicks but haven't been converting as often as I could. I am getting much better at getting girls to stick around, however. I've also been mostly focused on online game (the aforementioned girls are all online) but now that I have a lot more free time, I'm gonna resume nightgaming too. Stay tuned...
Good to hear it homie.
Welcome to the fold, I haven't said that already.
We have the quality discussion here on the regular.
I'd define "quality white girl" as a Blake Lively.
Kate Upton - not quality - low class
Melania and the EE crew - not quality - not American
Jada Stevens/Sara Jay/Stripper/Porn Star - not quality - strippers, porn stars
I'd fuck all of the above, but I wouldn't call them quality.
What's your definition?
WIA
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - WestIndianArchie - 06-07-2018
Quote: (06-07-2018 03:53 PM)Jack Gignac Wrote:
When I'm daygaming I try to pay attention to the guys who have the hottest girls with them and very very often it's black guys with the hottest white girls. Blacked.com influence? Haha
I don't know about that.
I see a pretty even split.
Guys that will fuck anything, rolling with chicks that are beneath them looks wise.
Guys with taste, that do have some really nice looking chicks.
I also see some lopsided shit - professional looking black dude with a professional white chick that's kinda dumpy. I just assume she's phenomenal in bed.
WIA
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - newandimproved - 06-07-2018
Quote: (06-07-2018 05:32 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Quote: (06-07-2018 02:25 PM)newandimproved Wrote:
Well just got out of a 10 month LTR and am finally a free agent. It was technically an open relationship, but likely only on my end. Eventually, I got hit with an ultimatum for exclusivity (not the first), so I just opted to end things. Best head game of my life (Cathy Haven status) and we had a blast together. I may write about what I did right and wrong at a later date but in the coming weeks I'm gonna be way more active in this thread.
My only other current plate is a 7 nerdy older woman (34) who still has quite the tight body. She's kind of boring outside of the bedroom (yaps about work and other by the numbers topics), but I see her about every week or two. Closed her on night one and she even spent the night.
I have two dates back to back tonight (a thick 6 and 7 hipster) and tomorrow have a date with an 8 actress/yoga instructor that I'm looking forward to. Have only dated white girls in the past year. My goal here is to really up the quality. I've had quite a few chances with 8+ chicks but haven't been converting as often as I could. I am getting much better at getting girls to stick around, however. I've also been mostly focused on online game (the aforementioned girls are all online) but now that I have a lot more free time, I'm gonna resume nightgaming too. Stay tuned...
Good to hear it homie.
Welcome to the fold, I haven't said that already.
We have the quality discussion here on the regular.
I'd define "quality white girl" as a Blake Lively.
Kate Upton - not quality - low class
Melania and the EE crew - not quality - not American
Jada Stevens/Sara Jay/Stripper/Porn Star - not quality - strippers, porn stars
I'd fuck all of the above, but I wouldn't call them quality.
What's your definition?
WIA
I def like Blake Lively though I prefer brunettes over blondes. Wouldn't mess with anyone else you mentioned besides for one night haha. I don't like Eastern European women as a general rule... too cold and aloof. Mostly like Northeast/Mid Atlantic and SoCal brunettes (I'm based in Cali). Def have a thing for Jewish women, since I grew up with a lot. If we're talking international white girl, French would be tops for me. Guess my ideal would be someone like Nikki Reed or Jessica Stroup. Educated, socially aware, leggy (5' 7"-5' 9"), and good face. Booty isn't that important to me in white or black girls funny enough. Usually prefer thickness in Asians and latinas.
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - Jack Gignac - 06-07-2018
i'm talking about raw hotness on the 1-10 scale not classyness or whatever. I could give a fuck about classyness at this point. If I had Leonardo Di Caprio type SMV then maybe I'd start thinking like that but unfortunately beggars can't be choosers.
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - coverdoc - 06-08-2018
All righty, let's just jump right into it.
I went to Europe for 12 days. Was going to stay longer but i grew bored.
Hit both Barcelona and Berlin. I don't think my travels warrant it's own data sheet and there is plenty of info on both cities so i'll focus this brief brief(i'm lazy)write up on gaming as a black American dude. I'll do Barcelona now and Berlin later.
Barcelona
Hit Barcelona on a last minute spur with one of my boys. Did absolutely no pregaming with online. I was burned out from online gaming/gaming in general during my 4 months in Mexico. So I just jumped right in.
Day game:
Stayed in Las ramblas area at a cheap $100/night hotel. This proved to be a big mistake in terms of day gaming locals. I probably did about 10 approaches the first day and got blown out the water by all except one. I was confused on why this was happening until my boy and I saw all the coffee shop and knock off vendors were dark skin African dudes that look like me(but I'm was more handsome haha). They'd essentially go up to people and ask if they smoke weed, or want to buy some shit. I chalked it up to the game and moved on. Got one IG close and the number of a fucking fine Spanish chick with ridiculous ass. We chatted for a little bit but both fizzled out. I did get lots of IOIs from tourist, especially white chicks, but I didn't travel thousands of miles to game tourist. I was on the hunt for that fine Spanish ass.
First stay was 3 days, smashed one solid 8 Spanish chick, who booty was so curvy it looked fake but felt real. More details below.
On my second trip back to Barcelona a few days later, we stayed away from tourist areas and had a lot better results. My burn out was in full effect so I focused more on online game, which I barely did and didn't want to do much of shit but eat junk food and watch Netflix.
Night game:
Really only went out maybe 2 nights out of the 8 I was there. If you read some of my previous posts you'll see I'm not a fan of night game. Bad ratios and men typically shoot 2 points or more below their batting average. Plus i don't like alcohol. First night out went to Jamboree (hip hop club in las ramblas) full of black dudes from all over europe/africa/U.S but if you can dance you're ahead of the curve. Very diverse with lots of women, surprisingly not that many black chicks, maybe 5% and all american bred bitches so I avoided them. Went with my past flame from Argentina so i was locked down. That still didn't stop bitches from approaching me while I was dancing. Note I said dancing. If you have good dance floor game with high energy you will pull something in here. Might not be an 7-8, but something to get your dick wet.
I was approached about 4 times, and once by two Toronto brown hoes, who I thought for a second i'd have a threesome with one of them, but my argie girl set up that fuck no perimeter quick lol. My boy struck out with them (he can't dance). All in all, he got a few numbers that night, but mainly tourist or expats. I wanted locals so own to the next.
(tips:Black dudes here come dressed in a nice fitted t shirt or button up. Stand out by dancing and appraoching. Most of the brothers I saw in there didn't approach or talked to fatties/5s and below)
Went to Shoko(next to opium and the rest of those beach clubs) another night. Was packed as fuck. Put your name on guest list using Xceed app. I rolled there solo and was getting lots of IOIs but again from tourist bitches, not really spanish hoes there. Went straight to the front dancing infront of DJ. Mad hoes around, but typically blondie white chicks, I wasn't interested in so I just enjoyed myself dancing alone which attracted large crowds of women, then men followed cramping my fucking style. Eventually, my boys came, who did a few approaches and got blown out.
My first bang came from my boy's pull from night club our second day there. A fine fine fine ass Spanish chica who ass so fat it looks fake. Anyway he couldn't seal the deal with her so I step in and she comes to hotel, pipe her ass down and she actually ends up being super cool. Kicking it with us for about 2 days. She was a little weird, but definitely 8/10 fine. Wish I could post pictures. Hung out with her again, but she was weird so I let her smoke me out, buy me dinner then I went home to chill.
(Tips: If you're at least 5/10 attractive and over 5'7 bitches will approach you eventually in main tourist nightclubs. Like I said, may not be 7s+ but you'll get your dick wet. Baddest hoes get sucked up into VIP.)
Online game:
2/3 smashes came from online here. Tinder/Bumble all damn day. Just buy some boost and be done with it. I was super burned out so barely ran tinder/bumble game. Mainly just boost for 30 mins. Keep convos for 30 mins and ghost. Here you have the chance to meet lots of single chicks living in Barcelona from other areas and A SHIT TON OF tourist bitches looking for that BBC. I get the vibe there aren't a lot of brothers using online gaming here. Once you get the match, be aggressive af. If they are tourist they know what's up, locals just lie and say you just moved there.
I was swerving any hoe, not above a 7. Barcelona local hoes move at a snail's pace. Since being back home for 2 days i've received about 5 messages from girls in BCN wanting to hang out. Catch me another time hoes lol)
One girl from U.K was a 7 in some photos 6 in others. We matched, chatted using that famous coverdoc tinder template. Got the digits and she tried to shit test me. I told her off the bat; she'll go out with her friends, text me when she's done dancing, call a taxi and come over. Alpha status right??? She ghosted me haha
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.These days my abundance mentality is through the roof so I didn't double text and moved on. 2 days later shit hits me after midnight saying she is going to club(opium) and will text me when she's about to leave. Comes over around 4 am. I go downstairs to let her in. THIS BITCH WAS BAD AS FUCK!! Blonde hair, blue eyes, clear skin, gorgeous smile, looking like a fucking famous actress. I kept my composure and gave her shit for taking so long. Came up stairs, chat for 20 minutes and down to business. I almost couldn't believe I was fucking this bitch. Body was just my type. Had her every which way. Afterwards we chatted and chilled. I offered her some room temperature soda which she loved. She confessed later she was scared I was going to tell her to GTFO after i came. Anyway, spit some post nut game in her ear, she tells me she's an actress/model and that she's never been to U.S. I tell her if she ever is hit me up. She hit me up later in my DMs saying she wants to see me, but don't leave love marks on her next time blah blah blah. Catch me when you can, On to the next slut.At this point 1 day left and I'm looking to bust another nut. Matched with 19 year old spanish bitch 7.5/10 nice ass body. Have her add me on IG, she's watching my stories and feeling my swag/view of my airbnb. We meet up near my place and smoke some pot. We chat and I'm gaming her, ask her does she want to come up for a view. She hesitates then says yeah. BTW bitch showed up in heels and a skirt, she knew what she wanted. We go up stairs, smoke, chill listen to trap rap (all these euro hoes love it these days) and I catch the mouth. She wanted to fuck, but I didn't have any more rubbers. She begs me to ask my neighbor, but I do what any player does and make her give the top. I bust, go down on her and she leaves after. Saying she'll DM me later so we can hang out that weekend. Yeah bitch good luck, i'll be flying over the ocean!
Tips:
-If you want locals, stay away from las ramblas and other tourist spots. Lots of Africans who look like you there that bitches will place you in that category.
-If you don't give a shit about locals or whoever and just want to get your dick wet, stay where ever is cheapest, game tourist ( you can tell) hit up nightclubs, download tinder, buy boost and be cocky confident.
-I found spanish men to be a little short and beta. They won't cockblock and most of the spanish women/local women who live there are tired of the guys being push overs, be the opposite.
-Know some spanish, most of these hoes speak some english, but it helps facilitate process if your Spanish is at least basic.
-Food was meh, tapas are good, drinks are expensive as fuck so be aware(opium it's 16 euros per watered down ass drink)
Racism:
I didn't find spanish people to be racist at all. Actually the opposite. Almost every girl I approached ask me where I was from and would get super excited when i said the states. Doesnt' mean they fucked or even came out, just excited lol. Most ask why you are there. Listen to me and listen good: LIE AND TELL THESE BITCHES YOU ARE STAYING FOR 6 MONTHS. Even if it's your last night. Surprisingly, I found tourist turned on more by me saying I lived in Barcelona. Go figure!
Older Spanish people outside tourist area were cool as shit. I definitely got lots of funny looks though as people couldn't figure out why this getta(spainish term for gringos) had on a spanish northface jacket, iphone 8 but eating in local joint.
All in all, spain is good for brothers who aren't afraid to approach. Your exoticism won't be as high as in Mexico or EE so don't go expecting to pull because you are black. You'll be disappointed. Also, Barcelona is fucking expensive. Be warned.
P.S. Spanish women are thick thick thick thick thick. Fat asses all around. So if you're into that head right on over. They are about intermediate level to game successfully and if you approach via day game most will need a few days to roast so keep that in mind. If you're going to be there for long-term, no reason why you shouldn't have a roster of 7s/8s with fat asses. Lots of flakes and reschedules but when they come out, should make for a good time if your game is tight.
P.S.S Spanish women are notorious for the no check out stare. They could think you are handsome as fuck and barely bat an eye at you. It's a Spanish thing and my two girls both told me that. Especially the younger one, she said she'd be caught dead before letting a guy see her checking him out.
@Basketbounce: Music in clubs vary. Lots of pop and electronic. Some places like Jamboree played nothing but hiphop, no hardcore shit, but enough to get these hoes dancing and shaking that ass. But mainly pop and some techno versions of reggaeton in the major clubs: shoko/opium.
@WIA: Catalan girls are thick as fuck. Super busty all the way. If I would have known they were like this, i'd have come sooner. The two spanish chicks I smashed down in Mexico were slim so I didn't expect this much. Fat asses everywhere. They do require some time and game though. I wouldn't recommend this spot if you are use to pulling solo because of exoticism or if you aren't in it for the long hall. Tall brothers should do well here, lots of tall euro hoes living here tired of short spanish dudes.
That's it brothers, Berlin up next!
-CD
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - BasketBounce - 06-08-2018
@coverdoc, I am happy for you, brotha! sounds like you had a fantastic time.
My n=1 experience with a Spanish woman confirms your observation that
1) they are seriously fucking with trap rap for some reason — I don’t know why??
2) Spanish women got the cheeks — again, I don’t know why
This country has been on my list for a while. When i get this bread...
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - jordypip23 - 06-08-2018
Quote: (06-08-2018 07:50 PM)BasketBounce Wrote:
@coverdoc, I am happy for you, brotha! sounds like you had a fantastic time.
My n=1 experience with a Spanish woman confirms your observation that
1) they are seriously fucking with trap rap for some reason — I don’t know why??
2) Spanish women got the cheeks — again, I don’t know why
This country has been on my list for a while. When i get this bread...
I think trap rap has gone global. There are Spanish language artists that rap / sing over trap beats right? Almost positive I heard some being bumped when I was briefly in Houston, TX in mid-October last fall.
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - VisionsofGandhi - 06-08-2018
Quote: (06-08-2018 08:16 PM)jordypip23 Wrote:Bro, we even have trap artist in Sweden
Quote: (06-08-2018 07:50 PM)BasketBounce Wrote:
@coverdoc, I am happy for you, brotha! sounds like you had a fantastic time.
My n=1 experience with a Spanish woman confirms your observation that
1) they are seriously fucking with trap rap for some reason — I don’t know why??
2) Spanish women got the cheeks — again, I don’t know why
This country has been on my list for a while. When i get this bread...
I think trap rap has gone global. There are Spanish language artists that rap / sing over trap beats right? Almost positive I heard some being bumped when I was briefly in Houston, TX in mid-October last fall.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t3fiYwWj38I
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPTAxFgQzFE
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - MaceTyrell - 06-09-2018
Spain sounds dope. When’s the cheapest time of year to go?
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - VisionsofGandhi - 06-09-2018
Is Barcelona safe now? Has the separatist problem ended?
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - coverdoc - 06-09-2018
Quote: (06-08-2018 07:50 PM)BasketBounce Wrote:
@coverdoc, I am happy for you, brotha! sounds like you had a fantastic time.
My n=1 experience with a Spanish woman confirms your observation that
1) they are seriously fucking with trap rap for some reason — I don’t know why??
2) Spanish women got the cheeks — again, I don’t know why
This country has been on my list for a while. When i get this bread...
Agreed all day.
I know of one spanish artist who is pretty dope. He raps in Mixture of English and Spanish, I had him on blast out in Mexico and Spain:
Quote: (06-09-2018 12:55 AM)MaceTyrell Wrote:
Spain sounds dope. When’s the cheapest time of year to go?
No clue, definitely not summer. This shit cost me a couple Gs.
Quote: (06-09-2018 01:55 AM)VisionsofGandhi Wrote:
Is Barcelona safe now? Has the separatist problem ended?
Safe how? I never felt any signs of danger. My old flame said most dangerous shit is getting pickpocketed when you're drunk walking around or tutes trying to steal you stuff when they come to your hotel to bang you. But as a brother non of that shit will happen to you. Why rob a brother and potentially get your ass beat when you can just pick pocket sally mae or old man Steve.
It's funny you mention that separatist. The 19-year-old who gave me the top was talking about it and how she's Catalan and want to separate because of Spain's economy and government problems. All sounded like B.S. excuses to me. Not really sure what's the deal behind all that.
-CD
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - Fortis - 06-09-2018
Quote: (06-02-2018 10:36 AM)Not a Second Hander Wrote:
thedarkknight,
I couldn't agree more.
Other groups be it Eastern Euros, Arabs and Chinese quickly tribe up and within a generation create proper wealth.
The black family unit has been destroyed everywhere be it in the West or in Africa. Most black men are lone wolves, no matter how many friends they have or whether or not they have a family. I don't know if it's by design, self inflicted, cultural or genetic. I think its got a lot to do with the crab in the bucket mentality of black men. Some days ago Mr. Rudeboy wrote about travelling with his father to Paris. I wouldn't bat an eyelid if that statement came out of a white or asian guy. It's just not something you frequently hear from a black man though. Dont remember the last time I saw a cross generational black extended family having dinner.
Also, no single demographic on the planet receives as much hate as a successful black man. I used to think hate was some paranoia stemming from the ghetto hip hop community but nah it's everywhere.
Even here in Asia people love (or at least accept) successful men of any race. A successful black man however grinds their gears wrong I reckon it's painful when you see someone you look down on doing better than you are financially. And this is coming from Chinese people and expats alike.
They expect you to be teaching English here at best. None hate worse than other black men. Been hitting Shanghai clubs with my Indonesian girl and the looks I get from niggas is just pure hate.
The formula goes, poor black men are usually very loyal. As long as you are poor. They will lie to the police or give you their last egg. Once you escape poverty though, you're an enemy bringing out their worst. Middle class black men will only associate with you if you can add some value to their life and are constantly status jockeying with u instead of building each other up. Once u get to upper middle class and above it becomes very lonely. Your own community shuns you. Joining other groups become a impossibility despite your worldly success. They want the safe black guy who aint much who they can treat like their own but still feel slightly better than. Cleveland Brown
Ish not a winner who their girlfriends would secretly be salivating over.Damn most black men at our level are dying for a tribe. Cant you find some African doctors or investment bankers in London and link up?
Interesting. I've always been a loner, even since before the game. I have a small, close-knit circle of friends, but not many black friends made it to this round of the game. Sad to say. Makes me ponder what I might have done differently to make more solid Black friends.
I'm glad that it isn't just me though.
On the bolded part about China,
Glad it isn't just me. I don't go out much to do clubbing or anything, but If I find myself out in Shenzhen at the wrong spot, I sometimes find that local chinese talk really slick if they see you with a decent chick on your arm. Weirdest part is that ther really salty ones will approach you on it.
Like straight up 100 questions trying to find a chink in your armor and stuff. It isn't always like this but I find that it's quite vexing. I talk to my white friends about it and they say that does not happen to them in China. Who knows? I could be sensitive but I have a good sense for when the energy in the room is shifting in a weird direction and I tend to get that vibe with Chinese dudes when they see me punching above my weight.
I've noticed that it's gotten worse as I've gotten more muscular. I get a lot of aggression at night from Westernized asian dudes. I take it as a compliment since they feel threatened despite never letting a moment pass where they're not talking about all the money that their dad has
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But I do not see them doing this to white people that often. I sometimes feel a bit bad when local girls or coworkers ask me if I got Chinese friends and I lie and say "Yeah, i got plenty." Truth is, I do not fuck with many local dudes I do not know unless I have a very good reason to be talking to them. My general move is to cut the interaction short and keep it moving. That's another thing that I tend to find that my white friends don't get. I'm not sure if it's racism or latent xenophobia but I find that I need to be a lot more guarded around Asians than many of my white friends.
Not to sound bitter or anything. I make the best of my situation in China and I enjoy my life out here, but sometimes I am reminded of some of the darker (no pun) aspects of being black.
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - pargan - 06-09-2018
The older I get the more I understand the extant of envy and hate people have for minorities. Just to start off people already hate succesful/rich people, this isn't just black people but also white, Asian, Arab etc. any kind of person will get mad when they see a successful person. I'd say a majority of people are like this. But a succesful/rich person and they're also black? This brings out the most extreme hate in a lot of people and they will do whatever it takes to destroy you. Don't be overly paranoid and be thinking of how everyone is trying to screw you over constantly but just be aware of this and don't let anyone sabotage you.
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - WestIndianArchie - 06-09-2018
@Fortis
How is Shenzhen in general? I don't know why I thought you were in Shanghai.
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - Wahawahwah - 06-09-2018
Fortis - Interesting observation.
I'm far from super successful but I've noticed the same from both, "friends" and strangers become weirdly hateful and even confrontational, every time I've levelled up or started punching above my weight.
IRT though, not black, so people don't get offended so much about financial success but man, they see you with a hot girl and it's like something short circuits in their brain. So many AMOG attempts....a lot of them from other IRTs...Its ridiculous and straight fucking stupid at times..
One way Ive been able to counteract is to just build solid social circles...socialize one's ass off. It does get tiresome at times, but people can be interesting, it's easier to game and also takes a bit of the edge off the whole getting laid process...
Sometimes one's gotta be blunt, and obviously most people are like crabs in a barrel so I've often found myself cutting toxic people out to maintain some semblance of sanity...But almost always replacing them with new connections...
Chuck the haters I say, laugh at them and their incontinent envy of your success. Make new, better acquaintances. Easier said than done ofc, but it definitely helps build a sort of resilience or buffer against unfounded racist shit ,regular envy or other such dumbassery.
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - azulsombra - 06-09-2018
Quote: (06-03-2018 05:05 PM)Iso Wrote:
Quote: (06-03-2018 02:03 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
I have a hard time sitting through videos, but this is the first Ethiopian player I've ever seen.
You would be surprised how many Ethiopian and Eritrean players are out there. Their game is a hybrid of traditional Black Game and mysterious exotic guy game. Due to their lighter skin complexion, they come off as less intimidating than African-Americans. That gives them ability to play with both the sisters and YT girls.[/b]
Ummm...what?
What skin complexion do all African-Americans have?
Why do you think lighter skin is a prerequisite to "play with both sisters and white girls"?
Let's not turn this into a tired Light skin vs. Dark skin black debate.
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - rudebwoy - 06-09-2018
Quote: (06-09-2018 04:41 AM)Fortis Wrote:
Quote: (06-02-2018 10:36 AM)Not a Second Hander Wrote:
thedarkknight,
I couldn't agree more.
Other groups be it Eastern Euros, Arabs and Chinese quickly tribe up and within a generation create proper wealth.
The black family unit has been destroyed everywhere be it in the West or in Africa. Most black men are lone wolves, no matter how many friends they have or whether or not they have a family. I don't know if it's by design, self inflicted, cultural or genetic. I think its got a lot to do with the crab in the bucket mentality of black men. Some days ago Mr. Rudeboy wrote about travelling with his father to Paris. I wouldn't bat an eyelid if that statement came out of a white or asian guy. It's just not something you frequently hear from a black man though. Dont remember the last time I saw a cross generational black extended family having dinner.
Also, no single demographic on the planet receives as much hate as a successful black man. I used to think hate was some paranoia stemming from the ghetto hip hop community but nah it's everywhere.
Even here in Asia people love (or at least accept) successful men of any race. A successful black man however grinds their gears wrong I reckon it's painful when you see someone you look down on doing better than you are financially. And this is coming from Chinese people and expats alike.
They expect you to be teaching English here at best. None hate worse than other black men. Been hitting Shanghai clubs with my Indonesian girl and the looks I get from niggas is just pure hate.
The formula goes, poor black men are usually very loyal. As long as you are poor. They will lie to the police or give you their last egg. Once you escape poverty though, you're an enemy bringing out their worst. Middle class black men will only associate with you if you can add some value to their life and are constantly status jockeying with u instead of building each other up. Once u get to upper middle class and above it becomes very lonely. Your own community shuns you. Joining other groups become a impossibility despite your worldly success. They want the safe black guy who aint much who they can treat like their own but still feel slightly better than. Cleveland Brown
Ish not a winner who their girlfriends would secretly be salivating over.Damn most black men at our level are dying for a tribe. Cant you find some African doctors or investment bankers in London and link up?
Interesting. I've always been a loner, even since before the game. I have a small, close-knit circle of friends, but not many black friends made it to this round of the game. Sad to say. Makes me ponder what I might have done differently to make more solid Black friends.
I'm glad that it isn't just me though.
On the bolded part about China,
Glad it isn't just me. I don't go out much to do clubbing or anything, but If I find myself out in Shenzhen at the wrong spot, I sometimes find that local chinese talk really slick if they see you with a decent chick on your arm. Weirdest part is that ther really salty ones will approach you on it.
Like straight up 100 questions trying to find a chink in your armor and stuff. It isn't always like this but I find that it's quite vexing. I talk to my white friends about it and they say that does not happen to them in China. Who knows? I could be sensitive but I have a good sense for when the energy in the room is shifting in a weird direction and I tend to get that vibe with Chinese dudes when they see me punching above my weight.
I've noticed that it's gotten worse as I've gotten more muscular. I get a lot of aggression at night from Westernized asian dudes. I take it as a compliment since they feel threatened despite never letting a moment pass where they're not talking about all the money that their dad has
I sometimes feel a bit bad when local girls or coworkers ask me if I got Chinese friends and I lie and say "Yeah, i got plenty." Truth is, I do not fuck with many local dudes I do not know unless I have a very good reason to be talking to them. My general move is to cut the interaction short and keep it moving. That's another thing that I tend to find that my white friends don't get. I'm not sure if it's racism or latent xenophobia but I find that I need to be a lot more guarded around Asians than many of my white friends.
Not to sound bitter or anything. I make the best of my situation in China and I enjoy my life out here, but sometimes I am reminded of some of the darker (no pun) aspects of being black.
Real talk my man, I don't want to beat that drum again.
When other people see a black man with some muscles, they think he must be strong, virile and physically superior to them.
Deep down they are probably wondering if you are another Lex Steele.
Don't laugh, I had a Chinese friend say to me "your not more than 8 inches, are you?".
Of course they are going to feel threatened, I don't think I am being rude when I say a Chinese guy cannot match up. All they can talk about is their father's money!
Moma and RudeBwoy RoundTable Discussion on Black Man Game Options - Fortis - 06-10-2018
Haha, I went back and read my post. That was a little grim.
ultimately, I agree with what you all said; it's best to recognize it and move on.
WIA: Shenzhen is pretty cool. I wish I had moved here a long time ago. It has everything I like.
Rudebwoy: is that also a common chinese guy topic in Canada? I find that "my daddy has (x)" so damn annoying. Some of 'em are pretty cool but I've had my fair share of clashes with dudes who were trying to AMOG me with that sort of conversation. It's one of those things where I figure I'll eventually find a fool-proof way to clown them, but just haven't experienced enough to have a reply on autopilot.
I try not to get too down on those guys, though. A lot of that is just cultural inferiority complex mashed up with general envy. However, I won't front like it does not bother the hell out of me sometimes. It's not so bad if the Chinese dude has been vetted, but if he's Chinese and he hasn't been vetted then all he usually wants to talk about is money.
WAhwahwah: Agreed, bro. I didn't mean to frame it as a "black only" problem. I've seen similar shade thrown at darker skinned guys from other countries. I have a Nepalese friend who speaks smoking good chinese and he said he was on a date once and this local guy was mad eyeballing him the entire time.
He eventually went to go piss and when he came back the Chinese dude had moved closer to him and his girl. The guy was acting really buddy-buddy so my friend knew something was up.
It turns out that when my friend went to go piss that Chinese dude came over and was trying to spit game at the girl. The girl turned him down and that chinese dude said something to the effect of: "You'll give that dark-ass indian some play but you won't give one of your own countrymen some play?"
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So yeah, stay strong out there, guys. Haters gone hate.