. . .the fuck is wrong with these people???!!

I added to whatsapp a girl who kept messaging me on social media (social circle thing, not dating) to meet up. As soon as she added me, she started calling me on the phone like once a minute. Then, because I didn't feel like picking up the phone, went onto a tirade that she was just trying to check I'm not a fake profile, I'm not interested in her, that I'm an asshole, that she's not interested anymore, that just because I'm white and a foreigner i'm not all that, that I make fun of gay people (because at the beginning I showed her how some gaytard kept spamming my inbox), that she is going to the states soon so she's hoing to be more busy than me, etc. . .

Like. . . seriously. . . this kind of butthurt reactions are way too common here. . .

Quote: (05-10-2019 12:24 PM)HowOneBecomesWhatOneIs Wrote:  

Like. . . seriously. . . this kind of butthurt reactions are way too common here. . .

You know who to call . . . .

   

Quote: (05-10-2019 12:24 PM)HowOneBecomesWhatOneIs Wrote:  

. . .the fuck is wrong with these people???!!

... she started calling me on the phone like once a minute.

If she's a keeper, you can train her not to do this by explaining why it is considered extremely rude behaviour in the west to repeatedly call someone like this. Ya gotta nip it in the bud quickly though otherwise it'll escalate. It's not really an option to just look for a girl who doesn't use her phone because every single woman on the planet has one now, so you need to judge how she uses it instead. For example, my girlfriend has instagram, but her account is on private, and she shares pictures of places/food/us within her circle of church friends, there is no bikini thott crap going on.

If she's not a keeper, just block her if you have already banged her, or put your phone on silent and ignore her, tell her she's 'arte' much later, and then block her after you banged her.

They're prolific at time wasted on their phone, you're not gonna change it unless you go down to Jolo or something lol.

I picked up a girl from Royal one time. Took her home, banged in the morning as I was too wasted the night before.

Went out later to get her a taxi. Wouldn’t take taxi money. Kept in touch online for a few months. One day she says “next time you pay me”

The end.

Not every girl at Royal is a pro, but it’s damn close to it.

Quote: (05-10-2019 09:28 AM)skifree Wrote:  

Quote: (05-10-2019 05:11 AM)KingKrule Wrote:  

Did you find Davao less expensive than Cebu? Is Davao a city you could stay long term in? Did the girls seem more conservative in Davao, compared to Cebu? Im in Cebu now and considering moving to Davao.

Cost wise, it's similar, but I don't look for the cheapest accommodation so I might not be the best person to ask. Mobile reception is pretty bad in some spots and the internet is slow. I personally wouldn't want to live there as there isn't much going on, it's more a place for having a family imo.

Quote: (05-10-2019 06:25 AM)KingKrule Wrote:  

Maybe you are right that its not the best city to stay long term in.. I have read posts from like 2012 where people are saying Davao is totally safe, so. What about Iloilo?Bacalod? Its important to me that its cheaper than Cebu and that its possible to find apartment with good internet connection.

The net there is shit, I don't even know if fibre is available anywhere, it's much better in Cebu from my experience. As an ex-fatty, I wouldn't be going to Mindanao unless you are fit and in shape, and have your wits about you, that is probably enough to make anyone think twice about trying to kidnap you for ransom or at least makes it possible for you to get away if someone tries some shit, it does happen, some areas are a no go as far as aus government travel warnings are concerned and I couldn't get clarity on whether or not my travel insurance was void for being in such areas. That's life though isn't it.

Thanks, if the internet is shit I couldnt live there.. But will probably go for a small visit.

Quote: (05-10-2019 11:20 PM)SeaFM Wrote:  

I picked up a girl from Royal one time. Took her home, banged in the morning as I was too wasted the night before.

Went out later to get her a taxi. Wouldn’t take taxi money. Kept in touch online for a few months.

It's called "long con". Some will even pay for YOUR drinks and food sometimes to make you believe they're not after money at all.

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One day she says “next time you pay me”

The day she realized you're not long con material.

When a hooker says "I don't want money", what she really means is "I want MORE money. Much more. Later."

This is all very plausible.

Both girls I was talking about I pulled from Royal. (Lol)
Both made it a point in paying for all their stuff.
Both got me free drinks and shots through their friends.
Both were kind enough to stop me when it looked like I was going to eat their box (lol)

The first one had reasons to like me and later I've heard she was chasing another foreigner more or less my type.
She didn't try to hide the fact that she fucked like a pro or stay in touch.

The second one - now it gets weird - seemed like a better girl at first; with all the deliberating with her friends if she should come to my place and whatnot.
Then came the confusing stories, saying weird shit like "we didn't even know about Royal but some woman in Burgos street recommended us the place", "oh, sorry, I'm not good at sex, I'm not used to this". Lol And yeah she wasn't great. Then from that to try and get me to hangout in Royal with them again - like, everyday.

Quote: (05-10-2019 11:05 PM)skifree Wrote:  

Quote: (05-10-2019 12:24 PM)HowOneBecomesWhatOneIs Wrote:  

. . .the fuck is wrong with these people???!!

... she started calling me on the phone like once a minute.

If she's a keeper, you can train her not to do this by explaining why it is considered extremely rude behaviour in the west to repeatedly call someone like this. Ya gotta nip it in the bud quickly though otherwise it'll escalate. It's not really an option to just look for a girl who doesn't use her phone because every single woman on the planet has one now, so you need to judge how she uses it instead. For example, my girlfriend has instagram, but her account is on private, and she shares pictures of places/food/us within her circle of church friends, there is no bikini thott crap going on.

If she's not a keeper, just block her if you have already banged her, or put your phone on silent and ignore her, tell her she's 'arte' much later, and then block her after you banged her.

They're prolific at time wasted on their phone, you're not gonna change it unless you go down to Jolo or something lol.

No keeper. Nothing. This one was some thot PMing me to hangout in Couchsurfing. 29 years old. From her pics I wasn't sure if I wanted to friendzone her instead.
I gave her my whatsapp since I was missing all her messages at the other place.
Next thing I know she starts calling me non-stop past midnight - even when I'm answering her messages.
Immediately after that, she goes sour and starts rambling about what an awful person I am and "you are not worth my time" kind of statements.
This is not the first time I get some weird fucked up drama from people in that website - in Philippines specifically.

Aside from my venting, I'm not sure anyone wrote about adjustments to game. My game is not good but, for example, if a girl in Europe comes to me with a silly pretentious attitude, I can often prove her wrong and the disagreement turns into banter (passing a test, basically).
Here, if a girl comes to me with a silly pretentious attitude, the disrespect is only going to escalate until I just cut her off completely. Same thing with attempts to agree and amplify; they just throw a hissy fit or block/delete me if it's chat.

Eddie is spot on, a girl in royal at best is a slut. I've banged normal girls from royal they were just majotlr sluts.

I also banked a hooker once there pretending to be a normal girl.

She invited me out to a bar in poblacion.still kept denying she was a whore. Even said she was a virgin 2 years ago. I decided to have a 3 way with her and a fuck buddy who was normal. Just make sure to wrap up.

Is it good to go to Philippines during June/July/August if you mainly want to bang backpacker girls?

A quick question: do you know a Manila airport terminal that only lets you in the door if you have proof of ticket? After a few days of banging, I want to get rid of my girlfriend by pretending I'm boarding a flight. However, I don't want her to get into the terminal and wait until I get my boarding pass. I just want to say goodbye to her as the taxi drops me off, do a quick walk around the terminal and then take a Grab to the next Airbnb. Any ideas?

Quote: (05-12-2019 03:11 PM)Nuas Wrote:  

A quick question: do you know a Manila airport terminal that only lets you in the door if you have proof of ticket? After a few days of banging, I want to get rid of my girlfriend by pretending I'm boarding a flight. However, I don't want her to get into the terminal and wait until I get my boarding pass. I just want to say goodbye to her as the taxi drops me off, do a quick walk around the terminal and then take a Grab to the next Airbnb. Any ideas?

They all do in my experience.

You have to wait in line outside the terminal to see the standard security guard peering at the piece of paper with writing you have in your hand and get your bags screened before you get into the terminal.

You should be able to edit one of those with an airline logo and something looking like a flight on your day.

Quote: (05-12-2019 03:17 PM)Sp5 Wrote:  

Quote: (05-12-2019 03:11 PM)Nuas Wrote:  

A quick question: do you know a Manila airport terminal that only lets you in the door if you have proof of ticket? After a few days of banging, I want to get rid of my girlfriend by pretending I'm boarding a flight. However, I don't want her to get into the terminal and wait until I get my boarding pass. I just want to say goodbye to her as the taxi drops me off, do a quick walk around the terminal and then take a Grab to the next Airbnb. Any ideas?

They all do in my experience.

You have to wait in line outside the terminal to see the standard security guard peering at the piece of paper with writing you have in your hand and get your bags screened before you get into the terminal.

You should be able to edit one of those with an airline logo and something looking like a flight on your day.

Wow..... Seems like a lot of lengths (and theatre) to go through in order to move onto the next bang.

Quote: (05-12-2019 03:57 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

Quote: (05-12-2019 03:17 PM)Sp5 Wrote:  

Quote: (05-12-2019 03:11 PM)Nuas Wrote:  

A quick question: do you know a Manila airport terminal that only lets you in the door if you have proof of ticket? After a few days of banging, I want to get rid of my girlfriend by pretending I'm boarding a flight. However, I don't want her to get into the terminal and wait until I get my boarding pass. I just want to say goodbye to her as the taxi drops me off, do a quick walk around the terminal and then take a Grab to the next Airbnb. Any ideas?

They all do in my experience.

You have to wait in line outside the terminal to see the standard security guard peering at the piece of paper with writing you have in your hand and get your bags screened before you get into the terminal.

You should be able to edit one of those with an airline logo and something looking like a flight on your day.

Wow..... Seems like a lot of lengths (and theatre) to go through in order to move onto the next bang.

I disagree with you as gentlemen can disagree. If she is a quality girl and you want to let her down easy... if you have the time for the extra ride to the airport and money is no object... and if at the last minute she is clinging to you (or feels obligated to accompany you to the airport)... Nothing wrong with leaving her with a lifetime memory of a great encounter and the illusion of true love. She will forever cherish the memory you two spent together and you keep your options open for a another rendezvous.

If however you treat it like a cheap encounter or dump her cold, she may label you a "player", curse you out and will even attempt to get revenge on you (this is from personal experience). Also, you will make it hard for anyone else on this forum to get another date with her. There is no need to poison the well.

Without wanting to turn philosophical, life is an illusion. We all, men and women, want to accumulate wonderful, meaningful memories. No sense in spoiling it, for both of you, just because you are not willing to put in the extra effort. Of course, I'm only talking about quality girls here, not freelancers or those riding the foreign-cock carousel. Those don't interest me.

Come on, guys... am I the only one who feels this way?

Quote: (05-12-2019 05:34 PM)Nuas Wrote:  

If however you treat it like a cheap encounter or dump her cold, she may label you a "player", curse you out and will even attempt to get revenge on you (this is from personal experience). Also, you will make it hard for anyone else on this forum to get another date with her. There is no need to poison the well.

That being said, you had better make sure that you do not run into her while still residing in the Philippines.

After that airport charade, in her eyes your reputation will go from mere "player" to "calculating psycho."

Quote: (05-12-2019 05:34 PM)Nuas Wrote:  

I disagree with you as gentlemen can disagree. If she is a quality girl and you want to let her down easy... if you have the time for the extra ride to the airport and money is no object... and if at the last minute she is clinging to you (or feels obligated to accompany you to the airport)... Nothing wrong with leaving her with a lifetime memory of a great encounter and the illusion of true love. She will forever cherish the memory you two spent together and you keep your options open for a another rendezvous.

If however you treat it like a cheap encounter or dump her cold, she may label you a "player", curse you out and will even attempt to get revenge on you (this is from personal experience). Also, you will make it hard for anyone else on this forum to get another date with her. There is no need to poison the well.

Without wanting to turn philosophical, life is an illusion. We all, men and women, want to accumulate wonderful, meaningful memories. No sense in spoiling it, for both of you, just because you are not willing to put in the extra effort. Of course, I'm only talking about quality girls here, not freelancers or those riding the foreign-cock carousel. Those don't interest me.

Come on, guys... am I the only one who feels this way?

Miracle! Finally some positive mood on this thread! Thanks Lord!




^ courtesy and international friendship, back on the thread!

Quote: (05-12-2019 05:59 PM)Tail Gunner Wrote:  

Quote: (05-12-2019 05:34 PM)Nuas Wrote:  

If however you treat it like a cheap encounter or dump her cold, she may label you a "player", curse you out and will even attempt to get revenge on you (this is from personal experience). Also, you will make it hard for anyone else on this forum to get another date with her. There is no need to poison the well.

That being said, you had better make sure that you do not run into her while still residing in the Philippines.

After that airport charade, in her eyes your reputation will go from mere "player" to "calculating psycho."

Funny you should mention that, I was just caught red-handed in Khao San Road three weeks ago. The girl even took a photo and sent it to me in Facebook. Thank goodness I don't intend to be back in Thailand for at least a year. She probably has photos of me pasted all over that Facebook page Thai girls use to discuss relationships with farangs.

Three lessons learned:

1) Do not date women who are too suspicious to begin with.
2) Avoid places that are too public like Khao San Road.
3) Always wear an anti-pollution mask when walking on the street.

Quote: (05-12-2019 06:47 PM)Nuas Wrote:  

3) Always wear an anti-pollution mask when walking on the street.

Quote: (05-12-2019 03:11 PM)Nuas Wrote:  

A quick question: do you know a Manila airport terminal that only lets you in the door if you have proof of ticket? After a few days of banging, I want to get rid of my girlfriend by pretending I'm boarding a flight. However, I don't want her to get into the terminal and wait until I get my boarding pass. I just want to say goodbye to her as the taxi drops me off, do a quick walk around the terminal and then take a Grab to the next Airbnb. Any ideas?

Sorry man, but why is this even an issue? My gf in Davao wanted to come to the airport with me, I straight up told her no (I was going to Cebu, not Australia), I have to sit for 2 hours waiting for the flight, so there is no point in you coming, lets just make love here at the hotel one last time before I leave. Here! 1000 peso for you to take a taxi back to your aunts, I love you, see you next time, btw have my baby.

It's that simple. Lay down the law, there is no discussion, it's my way or the highway, tbh they'll respect you more for this as filipino guys are more inclined to take a bat or chain to them if they step out of line and because you don't do that they see you as soft, but lay the law down otherwise you're encouraging them to walk all over you and that's when they lose all respect for you.

Quote: (05-13-2019 05:31 AM)skifree Wrote:  

Sorry man, but why is this even an issue? My gf in Davao wanted to come to the airport with me, I straight up told her no (I was going to Cebu, not Australia), I have to sit for 2 hours waiting for the flight, so there is no point in you coming, lets just make love here at the hotel one last time before I leave. Here! 1000 peso for you to take a taxi back to your aunts, I love you, see you next time, btw have my baby.

It's that simple. Lay down the law, there is no discussion, it's my way or the highway, tbh they'll respect you more for this as filipino guys are more inclined to take a bat or chain to them if they step out of line and because you don't do that they see you as soft, but lay the law down otherwise you're encouraging them to walk all over you and that's when they lose all respect for you.

Actually, when you put it that way it makes a lot of sense.

I second that.

Say your goodbyes at the hotel or condo. If you really want to lay it on, tell her you don’t want to get emotional in public.

And...make sure she doesn’t see you out. But, you never know, she may be back out on the hunt as well that night or the next.

These girls are hardcore players.

Quote: (05-12-2019 05:59 PM)Tail Gunner Wrote:  

Quote: (05-12-2019 05:34 PM)Nuas Wrote:  

If however you treat it like a cheap encounter or dump her cold, she may label you a "player", curse you out and will even attempt to get revenge on you (this is from personal experience). Also, you will make it hard for anyone else on this forum to get another date with her. There is no need to poison the well.

That being said, you had better make sure that you do not run into her while still residing in the Philippines.

After that airport charade, in her eyes your reputation will go from mere "player" to "calculating psycho."

By this point the girl must be totally hooked on this guy. He's her fantasy meal-ticket out of this poverty-inundated hellhole, and she's been waiting all her life for him to come sweep her away. She's like a really good bull-rider at a rodeo, and you're all bucking to try to throw her off.

Seems like there has to be a way of keeping it from getting to this point, of keeping the girl from getting so emotionally invested next time around. Then you could enjoy yourself without the nagging apprehension of the shit inevitably hitting the fan when she realized that you just wanted a good time.

This situation is already fucked, though. Are you guys serious that sticking around risks her stalking you and confronting you in public?

I would definitely get the hell out of there or go underground and wait for things to cool down.

Go to a different city and change your phone number.

Next time you meet a girl, learn how to generate within her some realistic expectations concerning your intentions, so when you do end up pulling out, it's not a total shock to her system.

Quote: (05-16-2019 07:52 PM)felix_vagabondo Wrote:  

Next time you meet a girl, learn how to generate within her some realistic expectations concerning your intentions, so when you do end up pulling out, it's not a total shock to her system.

We are all mature men here. So, we will not comment on your poor choice of words regarding "pulling out."

   

Has anyone flown with Philippines Airlines before for long haul flights, say from North America to Philippines or vice versa?

Are they any decent? How's their entertainment system and leg room

I like them better than Cebu Pacific. But it's still pinoy. If you get a good deal with them, I would take it.
Entertainment I couldn't tell you on long haul flights but for leg room, check https://www.seatguru.com/ for the specific plane.