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Looking for a good wingman to travel with me - Offering salary + travel expenses cove
#26

Looking for a good wingman to travel with me - Offering salary + travel expenses cove

Quote: (10-07-2018 10:28 AM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 09:56 AM)Saweeep Wrote:  

I think you'd be better with a hot, sociable girl thats good at meeting people.

Have her pretend to be your sister or something.

P.S. You're wrong if you think that status game doesn't exist out here. Everything in asia is about status. Everything.

Can you tell me how you would use status game in a place like the Full moon party or Phi phi? I'm all ears.

OP, the man (forum member) who will decide to work for you (that is, if your thread is serious and you're genuine), had better receive very good "salary" from you.

Because you seem (from your writings) rather arrogant (in spite of the yoga stuff, which doesn't fit), and, unsurprisingly, bossy. Not really the kind of man one would want as his employer [Image: dodgy.gif] - but, granted, to make money one has to suffer in some way, so I wouldn't criticize someone accepting your offer out of necessity.

I mean, I am just warning people who might be interested: they will be made to work hard, maybe painfully at times, and accept occasional humiliation, for their money. Unless it is just an impression (from your writings and list of pretentious requirements), and as PainPositive said, you are actually quite cool in real life?
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#27

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For £500 per month you can get your own security guard/driver out here. I have a Thai Muay-Thai coach who doubles as my driver/security for my girlfriend when I need him. Looks menacing as fuck and being an actual Thai opens doors and gets respect no Farang will ever really generate organically.
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#28

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Quote: (10-07-2018 11:46 AM)Going strong Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 10:28 AM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 09:56 AM)Saweeep Wrote:  

I think you'd be better with a hot, sociable girl thats good at meeting people.

Have her pretend to be your sister or something.

P.S. You're wrong if you think that status game doesn't exist out here. Everything in asia is about status. Everything.

Can you tell me how you would use status game in a place like the Full moon party or Phi phi? I'm all ears.

OP, the man (forum member) who will decide to work for you (that is, if your thread is serious and you're genuine), had better receive very good "salary" from you.

Because you seem (from your writings) rather arrogant (in spite of the yoga stuff, which doesn't fit), and, unsurprisingly, bossy. Not really the kind of man one would want as his employer [Image: dodgy.gif] - but, granted, to make money one has to suffer in some way, so I wouldn't criticize someone accepting your offer out of necessity.

I mean, I am just warning people who might be interested: they will be made to work hard, maybe painfully at times, and accept occasional humiliation, for their money.

That's quite a judgement and pretty ridiculous. For the record, everyone who knows me in real life appreciates my kindness/big-heart and value I bring across the board (not saying I'm perfect, but I'm far from your projection). Someone in this thread had already worked with me in the past and he posted some feedback so check that out. And I will say, yes I am a dominant alpha male and yes I will be directing the ship (as I would expect paying someone for this), at the same time I am extremely considerate of others (probably too much for our modern day society), so, I think they will be just fine.

I'm sure some people will see the value of an opportunity like this, I would have killed for an opportunity like this for much of life until I became successful.
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#29

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Quote: (10-07-2018 11:47 AM)Saweeep Wrote:  

For £500 per month you can get your own security guard/driver out here. I have a Thai Muay-Thai coach who doubles as my driver/security for my girlfriend when I need him. Looks menacing as fuck and being an actual Thai opens doors and gets respect no Farang will ever really generate organically.

If some younger guy is interested they should definitely discuss and nail down what hours they will have to work. It sounds like, at least to me, that this is a 24/7 jobs which will quickly suck when you're only making 2 grand a month. The whole "I'm the alpha and will steer the ship" will get real old for most people on this forum. Especially for 2 grand a month.
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#30

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Quote: (10-07-2018 11:47 AM)Saweeep Wrote:  

For £500 per month you can get your own security guard/driver out here. I have a Thai Muay-Thai coach who doubles as my driver/security for my girlfriend when I need him. Looks menacing as fuck and being an actual Thai opens doors and gets respect no Farang will ever really generate organically.

Yeah I'm thinking to hire a local Thai bodyguard too- have some connections with someone who works in Thai government and knows a lot of current or former military there I could hire.

Again not that I expect to need it, but it's worth it for the comfort. I would keep them at a distance so they wouldn't affect what we are doing in general.
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#31

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Quote: (10-07-2018 10:29 AM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 09:57 AM)Trakticion Wrote:  

Hey TravellingParty I believe I am a good fit for what you are looking for. I am early 20's, tall (and muscular), have good game and am a great wingman.

I was considering heading over to Thailand anyway (to game and learn some Muay Thai) and I am currently location independent with no prearranged plans over the next 6+ months.

I tried to private message you but I keep getting a error message. If you can PM me yourself that would be highly appreciated.

Sent

Hey man, I've been trying to respond to the PM but again I'm getting the same error message. I don't know if this is because my account is new.

If you can send me your email address via PM then I will be able to reply via email.
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#32

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Quote: (10-07-2018 12:04 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 11:47 AM)Saweeep Wrote:  

For £500 per month you can get your own security guard/driver out here. I have a Thai Muay-Thai coach who doubles as my driver/security for my girlfriend when I need him. Looks menacing as fuck and being an actual Thai opens doors and gets respect no Farang will ever really generate organically.

If some younger guy is interested they should definitely discuss and nail down what hours they will have to work. It sounds like, at least to me, that this is a 24/7 jobs which will quickly suck when you're only making 2 grand a month. The whole "I'm the alpha and will steer the ship" will get real old for most people on this forum. Especially for 2 grand a month.

Obviously not expecting anyone to be available 24/7. We will have days off, I don't game all day. I am not a machine (at least not all the time haha). On average they should probably expect to be available 6 hours or so a day ~5 days a week. This is just off the top of my head, but the point is, I know it will be sufficient and reasonable.


Yeah I was thinking to offer like $3-4k a month + accommodation/flights/meals we have together, and would offer more if they really were that good / added that much value to me.
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#33

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Quote: (10-07-2018 12:11 PM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 12:04 PM)worldwidetraveler Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 11:47 AM)Saweeep Wrote:  

For £500 per month you can get your own security guard/driver out here. I have a Thai Muay-Thai coach who doubles as my driver/security for my girlfriend when I need him. Looks menacing as fuck and being an actual Thai opens doors and gets respect no Farang will ever really generate organically.

If some younger guy is interested they should definitely discuss and nail down what hours they will have to work. It sounds like, at least to me, that this is a 24/7 jobs which will quickly suck when you're only making 2 grand a month. The whole "I'm the alpha and will steer the ship" will get real old for most people on this forum. Especially for 2 grand a month.

Obviously not expecting anyone to be available 24/7. We will have days off, I don't game all day. I am not a machine (at least not all the time haha). On average they should probably expect to be available 6 hours or so a day ~5 days a week. This is just off the top of my head, but the point is, I know it will be sufficient and reasonable.


Yeah I was thinking to offer like $3-4k a month + accommodation/flights/meals we have together, and would offer more if they really were that good / added that much value to me.

2k with accommodation isn't a bad thing depending on the hours required to work. It may work out very well for someone who is working on their online business. The main thing, for someone like that, is that they will need to be able to work on their business which is why I mentioned the hours. This could be ideal for someone like that.

It's a big leap for someone to have to rely on someone else they don't know for money when in a different country. You may get along in the early days only to realize you get on each others nerves later on. It isn't a big deal to you because you can give a severance and walk away. For the other guy it may be a much bigger deal if they don't have anything else to fall back on. That is why I mentioned someone that was also building a online business may be ideal.
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#34

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Just sent you a email TravellingParty.
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#35

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Quote: (10-07-2018 11:51 AM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 11:46 AM)Going strong Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 10:28 AM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 09:56 AM)Saweeep Wrote:  

I think you'd be better with a hot, sociable girl thats good at meeting people.

Have her pretend to be your sister or something.

P.S. You're wrong if you think that status game doesn't exist out here. Everything in asia is about status. Everything.

Can you tell me how you would use status game in a place like the Full moon party or Phi phi? I'm all ears.

OP, the man (forum member) who will decide to work for you (that is, if your thread is serious and you're genuine), had better receive very good "salary" from you.

Because you seem (from your writings) rather arrogant (in spite of the yoga stuff, which doesn't fit), and, unsurprisingly, bossy. Not really the kind of man one would want as his employer [Image: dodgy.gif] - but, granted, to make money one has to suffer in some way, so I wouldn't criticize someone accepting your offer out of necessity.

I mean, I am just warning people who might be interested: they will be made to work hard, maybe painfully at times, and accept occasional humiliation, for their money.

That's quite a judgement and pretty ridiculous. For the record, everyone who knows me in real life appreciates my kindness/big-heart and value I bring across the board (not saying I'm perfect, but I'm far from your projection).

Yes, sure man (Dragan is that you? I mean you are from the Belgrade crew, right?), you are super friendly and hyper cool and "into yoga and meditation", but at the first hint of criticism, you call people ridiculous and talk about "projection" [Image: dodgy.gif], which is an indirect, female way of deflecting criticism: "If someone criticizes me, he's projecting" [Image: tard.gif]

In any case, good luck to the poor dude who will accept being your sub-servant and "add value to you", mylord.

Personally I don't view other men as having to "add value to me". Men are either friends to have a beer with, or business partners or colleagues or medical doctors, or total foreigners. Nothing of this pretentious and female "add value to me" thing.
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#36

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Quote: (10-07-2018 12:52 PM)Going strong Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 11:51 AM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 11:46 AM)Going strong Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 10:28 AM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 09:56 AM)Saweeep Wrote:  

I think you'd be better with a hot, sociable girl thats good at meeting people.

Have her pretend to be your sister or something.

P.S. You're wrong if you think that status game doesn't exist out here. Everything in asia is about status. Everything.

Can you tell me how you would use status game in a place like the Full moon party or Phi phi? I'm all ears.

OP, the man (forum member) who will decide to work for you (that is, if your thread is serious and you're genuine), had better receive very good "salary" from you.

Because you seem (from your writings) rather arrogant (in spite of the yoga stuff, which doesn't fit), and, unsurprisingly, bossy. Not really the kind of man one would want as his employer [Image: dodgy.gif] - but, granted, to make money one has to suffer in some way, so I wouldn't criticize someone accepting your offer out of necessity.

I mean, I am just warning people who might be interested: they will be made to work hard, maybe painfully at times, and accept occasional humiliation, for their money.

That's quite a judgement and pretty ridiculous. For the record, everyone who knows me in real life appreciates my kindness/big-heart and value I bring across the board (not saying I'm perfect, but I'm far from your projection).

Yes, sure man (Dragan is that you? I mean you are from the Belgrade crew, right?), you are super friendly and hyper cool and "into yoga and meditation", but at the first hint of criticism, you call people ridiculous and talk about "projection" [Image: dodgy.gif], which is an indirect, female way of deflecting criticism: "If someone criticizes me, he's projecting" [Image: tard.gif]

In any case, good luck to the poor dude who will accept being your sub-servant and "add value to you", mylord.

Personally I don't view other men as having to "add value to me". Men are either friends to have a beer with, or business partners or colleagues or medical doctors, or total foreigners. Nothing of this pretentious and female "add value to me" thing.

The fuck is wrong is with you? Yeah you're framing me to being something I'm not. You don't see anything wrong with that?

Yeah, and everyone I have associated with, friends, family, and many people I have helped are far better for it or financially free because what they've learned from me as a result of being around me. As just one aspect of the "terrible" state I expose people around me to.

And no I am not Dragan, seems like you run into this same issue with numerous people. Not entertaining your bullshit anymore.

The silver lining is your toxic behavior is a prime example of the type of person I would not want joining me or anywhere near me, good luck in life.
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#37

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Quote: (10-07-2018 10:28 AM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

Can you tell me how you would use status game in a place like the Full moon party or Phi phi?

There's different kinds of status games but I actually agree with this.

I love the Thai islands etc. for gaming young hot backpacker chicks where its all about beach bodies and volleyball/ drinking games.

Props to you OP. We share the same tastes.

I am planning an assault on the beaches of Asia in a couple of years that will make MacArthur look like he was on amateur hour.

Provided we have neither of us been proved a troll, become trolls nor discovered a repressed memory that we were raped by >cough< JUSTICE Kavanaugh (in a non disclosed resort location) then it will be good to compare notes.
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#38

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Quote: (10-07-2018 01:14 PM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

And no I am not Dragan, seems like you run into this same issue with numerous people. Not entertaining your bullshit anymore.

The silver lining is your toxic behavior is a prime example of the type of person I would not want joining me or anywhere near me

OP, for a dude heavily into "yoga and meditation" and with a "super big-heart", you sure seem to have quite a temper, and some serious venom in you, too. Probably, rainy weather in Belgrade is getting on your nerves.

In any case, to all young forum members who could be interested: Be careful, especially when crossing international borders with this individual. Do not accept to carry his luggage through customs, do not even go through passport control close to him. I insist: at no point should you accept to carry his luggage, not even on buses or taxis, and of course not in planes. I've met people like that in South America, offering money "to help them with travel", and next thing you know, unsuspecting dudes discover they are carrying funny stuff. Not saying that is what OP has in mind (who knows his motivations?), but, better to take precautions.

By the way, quoting OP: "can you add value to me", "your toxic behavior": it's female way of talking. Plus, it's not meditative at all. Buddha does not look for added value, he looks for the exact contrary.
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#39

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You're going to get the ban hammer if you don't tone it down with the swearing. Be aware you're posting on an anonymous forum, we can't see your face so we can't read you but you're coming off very arrogant by your writing. Not attacking you, it's just how you come across. We get a lot of big baller trolls around here so everyone is on the fence. All these trolls starts off the same way. They offered no value to the forums prior and start threads asking for something in the guise to flaunt their success to boost their massive insecurities or ego.

Seriously though. What you're asking rarely exist, at least not the cool cat you want to hang around with. Any self respecting man with any success in life or pride will not take this "job" you're painting a pretty good picture of the deal but any man that takes money from another man to hang with him is not a man (not yet at least)

The logical thing to do is to meet up with a bunch of members from the forum. If you're cool like you said, you'll have tons of real forum friends. Invite them to stay with you on your baller pad on the island and game with them. You'll save money and have real friends that will look out for you.
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#40

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Quote: (10-07-2018 01:42 PM)Going strong Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 01:14 PM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

And no I am not Dragan, seems like you run into this same issue with numerous people. Not entertaining your bullshit anymore.

The silver lining is your toxic behavior is a prime example of the type of person I would not want joining me or anywhere near me

OP, for a dude heavily into "yoga and meditation" and with a "super big-heart", you sure seem to have quite a temper, and some serious venom in you, too. Probably, rainy weather in Belgrade is getting on your nerves.

In any case, to all young forum members who could be interested: Be careful, especially when crossing international borders with this individual. Do not accept to carry his luggage through customs, do not even go through passport control close to him. I insist: at no point should you accept to carry his luggage, not even on buses or taxis, and of course not in planes. I've met people like that in South America, offering money "to help them with travel", and next thing you know, unsuspecting dudes discover they are carrying funny stuff. Not saying that is what OP has in mind (who knows his motivations?), but, better to take precautions.

By the way, quoting OP: "can you add value to me", "your toxic behavior": it's female way of talking. Plus, it's not meditative at all.

I know Roosh and many other forum guys in real life and had plenty of good times with them, and they could all vouche for me. Not sure how you're still on this forum with your garbage attitude and you have NO IDEA what you're talking about in regard to Buddha and masculinity and femininity. Truly is enough at this point, I wont be engaging with this incredibly toxic smartass anymore.
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#41

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Quote: (10-07-2018 01:50 PM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 01:42 PM)Going strong Wrote:  

Quote: (10-07-2018 01:14 PM)TravellingParty Wrote:  

And no I am not Dragan, seems like you run into this same issue with numerous people. Not entertaining your bullshit anymore.

The silver lining is your toxic behavior is a prime example of the type of person I would not want joining me or anywhere near me

OP, for a dude heavily into "yoga and meditation" and with a "super big-heart", you sure seem to have quite a temper, and some serious venom in you, too. Probably, rainy weather in Belgrade is getting on your nerves.

In any case, to all young forum members who could be interested: Be careful, especially when crossing international borders with this individual. Do not accept to carry his luggage through customs, do not even go through passport control close to him. I insist: at no point should you accept to carry his luggage, not even on buses or taxis, and of course not in planes. I've met people like that in South America, offering money "to help them with travel", and next thing you know, unsuspecting dudes discover they are carrying funny stuff. Not saying that is what OP has in mind (who knows his motivations?), but, better to take precautions.

By the way, quoting OP: "can you add value to me", "your toxic behavior": it's female way of talking. Plus, it's not meditative at all.

I know Roosh and many other forum guys in real life and had plenty of good times with them, and they could all vouche for me. Not sure how you're still on this forum with your garbage attitude. Truly is enough at this point, I wont be engaging with this incredibly toxic smartass anymore.

If you know Roosh and many forum members, why didn't you say so from the beginning? You should have introduced yourself in an efficient and serious way. So we would have known (if what you say is confirmed) that you are for real. Or are we expected to believe any and all new forum members with no rep coming along and asking for strange things? And anyway, I maintain that no young forum member should carry your luggage in a public transport, the world of international travel has its dangers.
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#42

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OP has a mismatch of success level (claimed money, looks) with the weird way he's going about things.

Lots of people on this forum have become part of the community, met up in real life, found a crew, and from there all sorts of business and lifestyle opportunities develop.

Gay for pay (not kidding), some other scam, something is off. Be cautious.

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#43

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Quote: (10-07-2018 01:57 PM)RawGod Wrote:  

OP has a mismatch of success level (claimed money, looks) with the weird way he's going about things.

Lots of people on this forum have become part of the community, met up in real life, found a crew, and from there all sorts of business and lifestyle opportunities develop.

Gay for pay (not kidding), some other scam, something is off. Be cautious.


What is off is the degree of overly spartan behavior in this thread- 5 people were freaked out about gay stuff before an IRL person, with more reputation than anyone else here came and vouched for me (which I didn't ask him to, he just found my thread on his own).

I get it, there are certainly some bullshitters on this forum, but I am not one, and I am getting fucking tired of battling down this shit when someone specifically came and said I am not homo at all (which you're still accusing me of).

I already have mentioned I am open to finding this person in real life, and in fact have started looking for a person like this as I go about my travels, but I thought this would be a good resource to perhaps find my best fit (God forbid).
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#44

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The OP sounds like he found a lot of success and with that probably has more free time to delve into things that don't require work.

Compared to most people who has a job that occupies most of their time and keeping them from being able to travel for long periods of time.

I'd say most guys on this forum also have jobs that take up a big amount of time.

That is the downside of success. You have a lot of free time while most people don't. I can see how loneliness can enter into the picture for some people. People like me enjoy the time alone so it isn't a big deal. I'm a old fart compared to the OP and can see anyone his age wanting to be more social.

Traveling and meeting new friends is always great. You still end up spending more time alone because many of those friends will move onto new countries or have jobs.

If we look at it that way, I don't see why it is hard to understand why the OP would be be wanting to do what he is doing. Personally, I wouldn't do this with a stranger but would do it with a good friend that would be giving up his job to go travel the world with me.
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#45

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Quote: (10-07-2018 11:38 AM)Saweeep Wrote:  

Gold Rolexs and $5000 bar tabs are not unusual by any means.

Going to a club and spending that kind of money and relying on some non local guy to bring you girls makes you look desperate. Talking to a club promoter ahead of time and them filling your section with hot girls already makes people wonder who you are and even if you aren't interested in these girls it will make other girls interested because girls want what other girls already have.
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#46

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#47

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Why does anyone need a wingman for Thailand and Bali?

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#48

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Quote: (10-07-2018 04:09 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  

Why does anyone need a wingman for Thailand and Bali?

True, Thailand being an easy solo destination... In any case, as Maduro would have said, "a little (Chavista) bird" told me OP is Vinny, "naturally exhuding value" ( thread-61985...pid1539603 ), "All the little tiny demonstrations of high value. Me playing guitar, me traveling to cool spots, me doing sports, me looking good with some abs when I lost 7kg intermittent fasting. It is all there for them to see" ( thread-59134...pid1493841 )... If true, welcome back, I guess, man.

In any case, this thread brought me "value", in as much as I discovered whiteknightrises' log, with its sexy pics, thanks man for the eye candy.
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#49

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Quote: (10-07-2018 04:13 PM)Going strong Wrote:  

In any case, as Maduro would have said, "a little (Chavista) bird" told me OP is Vinny

Not a chance. OP says he's successful and has more money than he knows what to do with. If you read Vinnys threads he got banned because he was aggressively trying to sell members on day game and instagram service to make enough $ to live off traveling to third world countries.
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#50

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OP is not Vinny. I know Vinny and OP in real life. They are not the same dude. He's also not Dragan. (The Dragan I met and ousted in Belgrade as a know-it all, low-value, young, poor, silly, dumbass.)

As I said before, OP is not a homo in any way. He's a normal dude with a lot of the same beliefs we have on this forum and some that differ like anyone else here.

To address the "drug smuggling" assertion he's not a guy who would try and fuck you by giving you drugs or something fucked up like that. He's super generous and kind to everyone we came across from waiters and personal assistants to the security guys I hired to help me look after him. He paid all my expenses and flights to and from and I came out on top with good money and a great experience.

While OP and I have different personalities that didn't mesh well I can tell you he's a good dude who is super into zen stuff like yoga and meditation. I'm not. I'm a loud, high-energy dude who's from a loudmouthed city and is former infantry. I'm not the type of dude who needs to be working for someone in this capacity (or maybe at all.) I'm used to working for myself or in positions where I get let loose to either make money for the person I'm working for or run a team without much guidance.

In hindsight I probably would have been better just managing a security team instead of taking on a whole range of responsibilities and wearing too many hats. I offered to do a lot more than one man could handle and it became stressful and annoying for me. OP did everything he could to make it work but it just wasn't a good fit due to our different styles so we parted ways. This was a good decision and showed a lot of maturity on both sides and wasn't because OP was a bad guy or a bad boss.

I'd say a good man to help him would be someone who is a calm, super chill surfer type personality. Finding a security professional who can also be all the other stuff OP needs is unlikely. OP isn't that demanding except when it comes to being a chill, calm dude who never gets loud or fast-talking like I tend to be. I like to put myself into stressful situations and test myself. I believe growth comes from stress and OP likes to take it easy and relax and enjoy himself. He's his own man and can choose how to go about his like like any other man. We're just different in out styles and methods.

OP is opinionated and likes to do things his way. It would be best to have someone who can "go with the flow" even if he disagrees with the methods used or the goals in mind. I'm also opinionated and have no problem saying "This isn't going to work." if that's what I'm thinking. I won't take someone's money if I think I can't get the job done no matter how much someone is paying me.

OP and I are still friends and might try to work together again in the future but for now we're both going on with our own plans and goals. Many of the guys here know me and how I operate and I wouldn't say any of this unless I meant it.

If you're on here fighting with OP about his way of doing things that's fine and you shouldn't take the job. For some guys this is a great opportunity. For me I'm going to continue to live, talk, and act however I want and am not going to change my personality or management style for any person or job. If you fit the bill of chill, easy-going, zendude that can get along with anyone while being calm and willing to try doing things someone else's way you'll love this job. If you're a different guy with lots of personality, boisterousness, and want to run things your way you'll feel like you should be doing something else.

Hope this helps. Cheers!
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