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Anything and Everything.

Ones in my head at the moment:

* Chicks love being manhandled. The more masculine, the more rough lovin they'll need. (I met a chick last night, a feisty type, masculine intellectually. her eyes sparkled most when, with her head lying horizontally, facing to her friend to her left when I was on her right, I took my hand, placed it on her cheek and turned her head to face me.)

* There are three categories of behavior: socially appropiate, edgy, and creepy. Be edgy - you are nonchalant, but not weird. You're funny, but not crazy. Socially appropiate is boring, and creepy scares babes off.

*Never confide in girls an emotional weakness. They will mock and despise you for it, surreptitiously, if not outright. Learn not to feel emotions of weakness.

So, I'm in college now, which should mean I'm surrounded with young women at all hours of the day. However, my school only offers engineering as a major, so the ratio is a little skewed to say the least. To make matters worth, the percentage of the females that are worth pursuing is even smaller. The worst part about this is that these select few women understand this situation precisely, and thus can afford to have absurdly high standards.

Of course, much of my competition is also absurdly nerdy and anti-social, but this doesn't quite tip the scales enough. The problem I'm running into is that I'm developing a "scarcity mentality" that makes relaxed approaching difficult. It seems I only spot an attractive, feminine (this is probably the hardest thing to find) girl every so often, and have a hard time holding back enough to run good game. I understand that the key to success here is to genuinely not care, but thats hard when you're faced with a once in a month opportunity and you want to close the thing before someone else does.

I don't have any issues with the actual approaching (since worthy targets are so rare that I feel 100% compelled to do so ASAP), but I'm pretty sure I'm coming across as too eager. I'm not getting any up front rejections, but the flaking out is getting super annoying. Make me upset every time it happens because it was my only hope at least a month or two. I need to escape this mindset and get into the frame of mind that there are plenty of attractive women out there, but since I rarely see any of them, its tough. Any tips on this? The best thing I can come up with is hitting up bars in another town, but my friends are rarely up for this. Something needs to change, though.

The End is Nigh © some old character

Seriously though, given the current economic climate, how have you changed your lifestyle.

I'm bout to say good bye to cable, my YMCA membership, and change health care providers.

How has your 1st meet changed?

The ideal date has always been
- you cook dinner
- she provides dessert

But are you now woo-ing her with Ramen by Candle Light, with a Box of Chardonnay?

I'm both relatively new to this forum and to actively practicing game, but I've been studying the stuff for over a year now. Anyways, only recently have I gotten over approach anxiety, and because of this I have been opening more sets and number closing various girls living on campus. One in particular lives in my dorm building, which is very convenient for me, so I figured I would see if I can follow through with this one and see if I can build attraction and work towards moving in for the kiss.

After hanging out with her twice in the building, I have noticed occasional subtle IOIs (nothing super-blatant) characteristic of a reserved girl. However, at the same time, whenever she sees a guy friend of hers (who usually also lives in the building) while we're chillin, she'll jump from where she is sitting to run and give him this huge bear hug as if she hasn't seen the guy in 30 years or something, chat for a bit, and then return to what we were talking about. I get the impression that she isn't always like this based on what I've heard form her roommates.

Should I interpret this as either:
a. Her trying to demonstrate higher value and make herself look more popular in front of me
b. Her trying to give me the hint that she's not too interested in me based on her ADD in the middle of our conversation, in which case I should stop wasting my time and move on
c. Neither of these and just ignore it

Thanks guys! Ultimately, I'll learn to interpret and calibrate for things like this, but for now, I'm still a noobie

So, whats the general consensus when it comes to following up on numbers? I've always preferred the call, since I feel it comes across as bolder and more direct, but I've heard others say that texting is the way to go since you can more carefully control what is said and the tone you project through your word choice. What's working for you guys?

So I came across this thread on another forum (for the DC crew, it was LNS) ... and thought it was interesting. So I'd like to hear some other takes on this ... both suggestions for bigtiming ... as well as strategies to put it back in his face, because I'm sure it's something we'll all encounter at some point.


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I am wondering if people would be kind enough to give me some advice on the art that is big timing. Next week I am meeting the BF of a girl I used to date, who I still like a great deal. Bottom line, I want to put a real solid big time down on this guy just to let him know who is boss and where he stands.

I am familiar with all the fundamentals of a great big time: a straight out snub, calling the guy by the wrong name, reffering to him as chief, giving him a not-so-subtle wink whenever we talk about his GF, etc.. However, I feel like this has all been done. I want to really throw something special down on this guy, and to loosely quote Frank Riccard, maybe there is some cool form of bigtiming I don't even know about. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

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Obama or McCain?

What is your idea of a perfect 10 in terms of physical attractiveness? If you do not believe in the concept of a perfect 10, what would come close? I have been trying to get people to give me examples of this "perfect 10" but all they do is babble that it is subjective and everyone has their own idea of what a perfect 10 is, as if there could not possibly be some sort of general consensus because all people on earth are unique snowflakes. You people appear to be honest about these things so I would like to know what you think.

Maybe the Victoria's Secret women, yes? Adriana Lima is very beautiful.

Weird, random topic I know, but isn't it crazy how far society has come in hiding the fact that taking a crap is normal behavior not to be ashamed of? Back in ancient rome, there was no such things as bathrooms in your house with a toilet and sink. They had public toilets, which looked like a long slab of stone with holes in them that you sit your ass on. There were no dividers, no coverings. You had to take shit you just lift up your toga or whatever they wore and sit down. Taking a shit was actually sort of social activity. Guys would take a crap next to each other at the public toilet and talk politics, philosophy or whatever was on their mind. Almost like going out for a cup of coffee with conversation now.



They say it wasn't until the Victorian age that taking a crap became stigmatized. Victorian etiquette made this a shameful activity and something nobody should catch you doing, lest you be embarrassed. And till this day, we are all embarrassed if people know we are taking a dump. How many times has a girl been over your house hanging and you really want to take a number 2 but would rather wait till she leaves so you don't stank up the bathroom? I'm sure it's even more true with girls who will wait to their guy leaves before they bomb the bathroom. We have 19th century "polite" English culture to thank.