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Hey, I'm going to Montreal soon for a few days, staying at a hostel without friends. I'll be going to museums and such by day and going to bars/clubs at night. I've never really been to bars because I'm under 21.

Any tips or pointers for Montreal? Links to general travel guidelines are good too.

I'm also wondering about macking girls in the hostel - what's the deal with hostel game?

Back when I first started pickup, I met a cute German girl who was staying at a hostel, in my hometown (I met her in a bookstore).

If anyone wants to meet up, I'm down.

Is it just me, or is the American climate/environment no conducive to them?

- 2 Polish chicks
- 2 Russian chicks
- 1 Bulgarian
- 2 Kazakhstan chicks (well I guess they're not E. European)

All in the mid 20 range....but their American counterparts seemed to hold up better.

Your experience?

Ok, so its not the first time I've heard this -- and its frustrating!

I have a badge, a gun and love my job... the ladies love me in uniform and I joke around and have a great time with them -- I just don't make myself 'available' for pickup when on the clock/in uniform.

Anyway... I try to go to the bars, etc., but always hear that I'm 'unapproachable'. I have ladies looking my way, but they don't make a move, and for some reason, I can't yet get that confidence to walk over and say hi. (put me in the uniform, and I'll walk over and tell them its not polite to stare and if they keep it up, I'll have to put them in handcuffs -- and from there it's a great time).

However... how the hell do I loose this unapproachable persona? Out of uniform (in a bar setting for example), it looks like I'm 'working'. One time I wandered the bar alone after some friends took off early for the night... a couple of very attractive ladies were eyeballing me. Anyway, a fight started, I stepped in, dealt with it until our uniform guys showed and took the guys away. I heard the women saying (they pushed there way into watch me break apart the fight) to each other how they figured I was an undercover cop working and that was why I wasn't talking to them(or other women). I ended up leaving for the night after this, still having not talked to any women (aside from those in our group early on).


Any suggestions on how to present yourself as 'approachable'??

The above is the biggest sticking point in my game right. I know that in order to get sexual with a girl you have to inroduce sexual inuendo but it's something that doesnt come natural to me and its really getting to me. Sure I can make a girl laugh and all that shit but I want pussy not a gold medal for been a cool funny dude. Everytime I try to shift gear Captain Play it safe comes to the rescue. If you've been through this phase and now on the other side. any advice please!!

The girl I'm referring to in this post didnt actually say that to me but thats the vibe I'm getting. The background to this is I started University on sunday or college to you guys in the US. Met this girl on the first day she helped me move into my flat and seemed really cool (it was her job). At the time I didnt really feel she was all that so I didnt make any moves on her. Fast forward a couple of days later we went to a freshers party and she was looking hot. We got chating and to cut a long story short I ended up in her flat on wednesday and stayed till 3am and basically did nothing. Sure I made her laugh dropped a few jokes ha ha ha but I kept it light. On thursday I did the same thing again. On wednesday when she talked about her boyfriend ( he's in Bahamas but we're studying in the UK) it was how immature he was and how he started talking about how much he loved her after only 3 weeks, the second day her comments were a lot more complimentary which I took as a subtle cue that she's no longer open to any sort of sexual move from me, she already gave me a chance to. Basically to rescue the situation I'm thinking of breaking rapport with her and not talk to her for a few days and then try and reframe or is this a lost cause.

apologies about the long post

Hello guys,

I just moved from the west coast and I have to say that NYC is so much different in terms of meeting women than say vegas or San Diego. I am really good at cold approaching getting women comfortable in say 5-10 minutes but what got me really thinking is Roosh's post on meeting women on weekends vs during the week, I have been doing the community stuff for a couple of years which is predominantly night game and a structured approach. It would be great if any of you from the NYC area can share on how it's done in NYC, from meeting to working logistics. BTW I live in NJ like around a 45 minute drive from the city. thanks for reading!

I'm now dating two girls, and things are running in parallel.

They are both equally attractive physically, they're amazing actually. They seem like quality sorts personality wise too. They're both is stable jobs and seem to have friends they care for. On the surface, one of them appears a little more dominant (Ms More Dominant lets call her).

Ms Less Dominant actually introduced me to her friends, which I found odd on a 3rd date. Ms More DOminant is more cagey and challenging.

I've gotten to a french kiss with both of them in the last two days. The kiss close on Less Dominant was really awkward due to her lack of like of kino, I did the "I like this part of the neck the best" and put my hand on it, and then did the "what does your hair smell like, oh do you use that fruity conditioner?" type thing. She dipped her head out of shyness, and I went it anyway, she dipped again, I went in again, and then something clicked, - then (as we say) it was all ON with the kissing. Ms More Dominant basically kissed me, its was extremely mutual, and she's not shy.

I feel like at the moment, they're really turning me on in different ways. One I can be dominant with in a classic way, and she expect me to make 1st moves, the other woman is there to be chased and caught, and can be a bit bitey - which is cool because I like that edge.

For all I know they are seeing other people.

At what point does them not knowing about each other become unethical?

How do I choose? Do I need to choose??

I'm working on an online business at the moment, but don't expect to be earning everything I need to live in the right off that bat. While I grow things, I thought I could buy myself time by living in a nice, cheap location that will allow me to get out and travel, save money, and grow my business. I'm thinking someplace in South America or Eastern Europe. Does anyone have any recommendations?

alrite the title doest explain it that well. but this is what i mean. everyone knows you can't be the nice guy from the moment you meet a girl or start talking to them because they are gunna take you for a low confidence pussy. so you play the confident role of you know what ur doing. but now how far into a conversation or soemthing do you realize you can be the nice guy and not get mistaken for weakness?

b/c the other way around .. if you continue to be the confident type and never step off your game you might get looked at lke an asshole


this is all stemming from a txt convo i had last nite and i tink i mights messed shit up

I've been contemplating going to a couple of speed dating events -- as a way to expose myself to single women, sure, but also to _make_ myself open up in a required "approach" environment.

I've got some ideas for great openers at a speed dating event, but 'worry' about going into 'interview mode' instead, though... and I'm sure I would go into interview mode, especially if trying to meet someone I really don't find desirable at all.

Has anyone else taken in a speed dating event just to get some exposure to using your learned skills? To force yourself into developing more comfort into an approach environment? Let me know how it went!